- Subjects
- Published
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Golden, CO :
Love and Logic Press
c1995.
- Language
- English
- Main Author
- Other Authors
- Edition
- 1st ed
- Physical Description
- xv, 399 p. 24 cm
- Bibliography
- Includes bibliographical references (p. 373-390) and index.
- ISBN
- 9780944634295
- Acknowledgments
- Preface
- Part 1. How Does Love and Logic Work?
- 1.. The Purpose of Love and Logic
- A Master Makes it Look Easy
- Creating a Higher Standard of Behavior
- Great Educators Are Experimenters
- 2.. Confronting the Myths About Discipline
- To Warn or Not to Warn
- Immediate Consequences vs. Delayed Consequences
- Do Students Need to Like Their Teachers?
- Relationship-Building Experiment
- 3.. The Three Rules of Love and Logic
- People Learn from Their Own Decisions
- Use Enforceable Limits
- Provide Choices Within Limits
- Apply Consequences with Empathy
- 4.. Finding Time for Love and Logic Discipline
- Dealing with Discipline on Your Own Terms
- Short, Sweet Interactions
- Dealing with Kids Who Feed off Each Other
- 5.. Discipline and Control
- Norms Teachers Must Face
- Other Factors That Affect Discipline
- Internalized Control vs. External Enforcement
- The Source or the Symptom?
- 6.. Perception and Behavior
- Our Perception Is Our Reality
- Self-Worth and the Desire to Avoid Pain
- Our Field of Awareness
- Our Sphere of Influence
- Changing Behavior in the Classroom
- 7.. Principles vs. Systems
- The Philosophy of Discipline
- Teaching Without a Thermostat
- Consistent Reactions or Consistent Outcomes?
- The Only Rule You Need
- Part 2. The Four Key Principles of Love and Logic
- 8.. Principle 1: The Enhancement of Self-Concept
- Why is Self-Concept at an All-Time Low?
- Who We Believe We Are
- The Role of Implied Messages
- The Role of Achievement
- 9.. Principle 2: Shared Control
- From Intimidation to Manipulation
- From Control to Cooperation
- Choices Within Limits
- Avoiding the Cycle of Defiance
- 10.. Principle 3: Consequences with Empathy
- Making the Decision to Change
- The Difference Between Consequences and Punishment
- Guidelines for Administering Consequences
- 11.. Principle 4: Shared Thinking
- Thinking: Who Does All the Work?
- The Power of Induced Thinking
- Trials over Time
- Anchoring and the Bias Effect
- Developing the Attitude of Relearning
- Part 3. Realities and Myths
- 12.. Styles of Teaching
- Helicopters, Drill Sergeants, and Consultants
- Raising the Odds for Student Learning
- The Road to Achievement
- The Joy of Accomplishment
- 13.. Legal Considerations
- The Bottom Line
- Educational Malpractice
- Compelling State Interests
- Protection from Liability
- 14.. Implementing School Discipline: Systems vs. Principles
- The Systems Approach
- Systems Are Difficult to Maintain
- The Principles Approach
- Implementing Change
- Keeping the Process Alive
- 15.. Walled Lake Central High School One School's Approach to Love and Logic
- Self-Esteem Planning Phase
- Developing and Practicing the Plan
- Putting the Plan into Action
- Part 4. Classroom Solutions Through Love and Logic Interventions
- Breaking the Emotional Spell
- Getting Them to Fall in Love with You
- 1.. The Evil Eye
- 2.. Moving in on the Student
- 3.. Proximity
- 4.. Eye Contact and the "No" head-shake
- 5.. Let's Talk About This Later
- 6.. Can You Save That? Thanks
- 7.. Changing Location
- 8.. Is This the Right Place for That?
- 9.. "I" Messages
- 10.. Enforceable Statements
- 11.. Providing Choices
- 12.. Removing Student to Time-Out
- 13.. Evaluating Time-Out
- 14.. Use of the Building Administrator
- 15.. Giving an Appointment
- 16.. Creating a New Plan
- 17.. Applying Consequences
- 18.. Informational Letters
- 19.. Systematic Suspension
- Part 5. Love and Logic Experiments, Charts, and Tips
- Love and Logic Charts
- Turn Your Words Into Gold
- Our Field of Awareness/Our Sphere of Influence
- The Two Basic Philosophies of Discipline
- The Cycle of Defiance
- Guidelines for Student/Teacher Interactions
- Guidelines for Avoiding Control Battles
- Guidelines for Utilizing Consequences in the Classroom
- Love and Logic Tips
- Tip #1. Dealing with Power Struggles
- Tip #2. How to Destroy the Teaching Value of a Logical Consequence
- Tip #3. Rules for Giving Choices
- Tip #4. Consequences with Empathy
- Tip #5. Guiding Students to Solve Their Own Problems
- Tip #6A. Using Negative Assertion
- Tip #6B. Using Negative Assertion and Broken Record
- Tip #7. Gaining Control by Giving Some Away
- Tip #8. Thinking Words and Fighting Words
- Tip #9. Choices vs. Threats
- Tip #10. Possible Choices in the Classroom
- Tip #11. Punishment vs. Discipline
- Tip #12. Four Steps to Responsibility
- Tip #13. Styles of Teaching
- Tip #14. Affordable Price Tags
- Tip #15. A Core of Beliefs
- Tip #16. When Consequences Don't Work
- Tip #17. Setting Limits
- Tip #18. Better Ways to Say "No"
- Supportive Theory and Research for Teaching With Love and Logic
- Research and Readings
- References
- Index