- Subjects
- Published
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New York :
Warner Business Books
c2004.
- Language
- English
- Main Author
- Physical Description
- 268 p. ; 21 cm
- Bibliography
- Includes bibliographical references.
- ISBN
- 9780446531320
- Introduction
- Chapter 1. Getting Started
- Chapter 2. How You Play the Game
- 1. Pretending It Isn't a Game
- 2. Playing the Game Safely and within Bounds
- 3. Working Hard
- 4. Doing the Work of Others
- 5. Working without a Break
- 6. Being Naive
- 7. Pinching Company Pennies
- 8. Waiting to Be Given What You Want
- 9. Avoiding Office Politics
- 10. Being the Conscience
- 11. Protecting Jerks
- 12. Holding Your Tongue
- 13. Failing to Capitalize on Relationships
- 14. Not Understanding the Needs of Your Constituents
- Chapter 3. How You Act
- 15. Polling Before Making a Decision
- 16. Needing to Be Liked
- 17. Not Needing to Be Liked
- 18. Not Asking Questions for Fear of Sounding Stupid
- 19. Acting Like a Man
- 20. Telling the Whole Truth and Nothing but the Truth (So Help You God)
- 21. Sharing Too Much Personal Information
- 22. Being Overly Concerned with Offending Others
- 23. Denying the Importance of Money
- 24. Flirting
- 25. Acquiescing to Bullies
- 26. Decorating Your Office Like Your Living Room
- 27. Feeding Others
- 28. Offering a Limp Handshake
- 29. Being Financially Insecure
- 30. Helping
- Chapter 4. How You Think
- 31. Making Miracles
- 32. Taking Full Responsibility
- 33. Obediently Following Instructions
- 34. Viewing Men in Authority as Father Figures
- 35. Limiting Your Possibilities
- 36. Ignoring the Quid Pro Quo
- 37. Skipping Meetings
- 38. Putting Work Ahead of Your Personal Life
- 39. Letting People Waste Your Time
- 40. Prematurely Abandoning Your Career Goals
- 41. Ignoring the Importance of Network Relationships
- 42. Refusing Perks
- 43. Making Up Negative Stories
- 44. Striving for Perfection
- Chapter 5. How You Brand and Market Yourself
- 45. Failing to Define Your Brand
- 46. Minimizing Your Work or Position
- 47. Using Only Your Nickname or First Name
- 48. Waiting to Be Noticed
- 49. Refusing High-Profile Assignments
- 50. Being Modest
- 51. Staying in Your Safety Zone
- 52. Giving Away Your Ideas
- 53. Working in Stereotypical Roles or Departments
- 54. Ignoring Feedback
- 55. Being Invisible
- Chapter 6. How You Sound
- 56. Couching Statements as Questions
- 57. Using Preambles
- 58. Explaining
- 59. Asking Permission
- 60. Apologizing
- 61. Using Minimizing Words
- 62. Using Qualifiers
- 63. Not Answering the Question
- 64. Talking Too Fast
- 65. The Inability to Speak the Language of Your Business
- 66. Using Nonwords
- 67. Using Touchy-Feely Language
- 68. The Sandwich
- 69. Speaking Softly
- 70. Speaking at a Higher-than-Natural Pitch
- 71. Trailing Voice Mails
- 72. Failing to Pause or Reflect Before Responding
- Chapter 7. How You Look
- 73. Smiling Inappropriately
- 74. Taking Up Too Little Space
- 75. Using Gestures Inconsistent with Your Message
- 76. Being Over- or Underanimated
- 77. Tilting Your Head
- 78. Wearing Inappropriate Makeup
- 79. Wearing the Wrong Hairstyle
- 80. Dressing Inappropriately
- 81. Sitting on Your Foot
- 82. Grooming in Public
- 83. Sitting in Meetings with Your Hands under the Table
- 84. Wearing Your Reading Glasses around Your Neck
- 85. Accessorizing Too Much
- 86. Failing to Maintain Eye Contact
- Chapter 8. How You Respond
- 87. Internalizing Messages
- 88. Believing Others Know More than You
- 89. Taking Notes, Getting Coffee, and Making Copies
- 90. Tolerating Inappropriate Behavior
- 91. Exhibiting Too Much Patience
- 92. Accepting Dead-End Assignments
- 93. Putting the Needs of Others Before Your Own
- 94. Denying Your Power
- 95. Allowing Yourself to Be the Scapegoat
- 96. Accepting the Fait Accompli
- 97. Permitting Others' Mistakes to Inconvenience You
- 98. Being the Last to Speak
- 99. Playing the Gender Card
- 100. Tolerating Sexual Harassment
- 101. Crying
- Appendix Personal Development Planning and Resources
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