The art of conversation A guided tour of a neglected pleasure

Catherine Blyth

Book - 2009

A wide-ranging, exhortatory look at the pleasures of great conversation, including strategies for how to bring it about, from the witty pen of an Englishwoman wise in its ways.

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Published
New York, N.Y. : Gotham Books c2009.
Language
English
Main Author
Catherine Blyth (-)
Physical Description
289 p. ; 20 cm
Bibliography
Includes bibliographical references (p. 285-288).
ISBN
9781592404193
  • Introduction: We need to talk (or for the busy reader, the concise manifesto)
  • Hello : on conversation's casting couch
  • Small talk, big deal? : on striking up a tune
  • Pay heed : on the acrobatics of attention
  • The rest is silence : on not speaking
  • Fit subjects : on topics in search of good homes
  • Into the groove : on steering controls
  • Do go on : on wrangling boredom
  • Wit to woo : on humor as social engineering
  • How to tell a good lie : on the detection of untruths
  • Pillow talk : on the languages of love
  • The fine art of flattery : on love in measured doses
  • Shop talk : on conversation as work
  • Choppy waters : on navigating difficult conversation
  • Shut-up shop : on how to wage a word war
  • Are you receiving me? : on stitching conversation into your life.
Review by Publisher's Weekly Review

British journalist Blyth was once described as "the person you hope you'll find at the next cocktail party--or the person you'd like to be." The next best thing is a close encounter with Blyth on the printed page. Adopting a chatty, conversational manner to write about conversation, Blyth mixes personal anecdotes into a salmagundi of selected quotes from anthropology, history, literature, philosophy and pop culture to analyze and give advice on the dynamics of good conversation, not to mention the perfect riposte for every situation. She examines everything from small talk to pillow talk, from riotous raconteurs to crashing bores, from flattery to false smiles. The key is listening: "Good conversation is a team sport; pace and energy keep it alive." Blyth probes layers of language, humor as social engineering, baiting, lies, flirting, evasions and failed shoptalk, such as how "miscommunication lost Xerox the PC." Witty, eloquent and insightful, Blyth's book is a delightful encouragement to rediscover conversation as the best communication technology. (Jan.) (c) Copyright PWxyz, LLC. All rights reserved

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Review by Library Journal Review

A refresher course for those who've been plugged into their iPods for too long. Rights sold to five countries; with a national tour. (c) Copyright 2010. Library Journals LLC, a wholly owned subsidiary of Media Source, Inc. No redistribution permitted.

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