- Subjects
- Published
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Lanham, Md. :
Rowman & Littlefield
[2011]
- Language
- English
- Main Author
- Other Authors
- Item Description
- Includes index.
- Physical Description
- xvi, 256 pages ; 24 cm
- ISBN
- 9781442208483
- Foreword
- Acknowledgments
- Introduction: The Inspiration for Becoming Jewish
- 1. Finding New Meaning
- Making the Transition
- What Defines a Jew?
- Why Is Culture So Important?
- Why Convert?
- What Is Involved?
- Choosing a Hebrew Name
- Getting Started
- Rabbi Shopping
- Finding Community Online
- The Right Rabbi for You
- Jewish Denominations
- Do You Need to Learn Hebrew?
- Will Your Children Need to Convert?
- Using This Book
- 2. Belonging vs. Believing
- Belief-Based Religion
- Belonging-Based Religion
- Will Jews Accept You as a Convert?
- Will Family and Friends Accept You?
- What Does "Religious" Mean?
- Labels Belong on Products
- More Than a Religion
- Your Jewish Inheritance Room
- Developing Your Own Jewish Customs
- 3. Telling Family and Friends
- Topics Considered Taboo
- Be Honest
- Find a Neutral Setting
- Gaining Support
- Keeping Past Ties
- Do It for You
- More Than You Bargained For
- Those Awkward Moments
- Start Living It
- 4. Hitting the Books
- Choosing Your Path
- Seeing with 4 Jewish Set of Eyes
- TMI!
- Just Do It
- 5. Learning an Ancient Language
- Really? Is Hebrew Required?
- Language of the Torah
- Curl Up with the Dead Sea Scrolls
- Help!
- But It Looks So Different
- Your Secret Decoder Ring
- Nothing Ventured, Nothing Gained
- Worth the Effort
- 6. Honoring Shabbat
- Rock Star Status
- Making Shabbat Yours
- The Three Traditional Shabbat Rituals
- A Blessing for Children
- Do-It-YourselfS/iflbbflf
- Weekly Farewell Pary
- 7. Holidays and Holy Days
- Early or Late?
- More Holidays Than You Can Shake a Lulav At
- Make Your Sukkah Shine
- The Miracle of Religious Freedom
- The Three-Hour Meal
- The "Ten-Minute" Holiday
- 8. Facing the Bet Din
- Behind the Bet Din
- Use "We" Terms
- Don't Sweat It
- Assessing Your Intent
- Cramming Sold Separately
- 9. Mikvah and More
- The Mikvah
- Modesty Takes a Backseat
- Conversion Ceremony
- Circumcision
- Hatafat Dam Brit
- BritMilah
- Brit Milah for Newborns
- Calming Conversion Jitters
- 10. Tradition
- Why Tradition Matters
- More Than a Nursery
- BritMilah
- Coming-of-Age
- Tying the Knot
- R.I.P.
- Sacred Rituals and Customs
- Knowing What's Important
- Cornerstones of Judaism
- Making It Work
- 11. Living Single
- The Many Meanings of "Family"
- Finding Your Own "Jewish Mother"
- Don't Amputate Your Past
- 12. All This for a Wedding?
- Turning Two into One
- More Than Art
- Four Poles and Some Fabric
- Walking in Circles
- Getting to "I Do"
- Sheva Berachot (Seven Blessings)
- The Plain Gold Band
- The Groom Wore Steel-Toed Shoes
- Getting a Get
- 13. Raising Jewish Kids
- Hang On! Help Is On Its Way
- Q&A
- Live It Yourself
- 14. Adult B'nai Mitzvah and Beyond
- Rite of Passage
- Facing YourTears
- What Can You Expect?
- Adult B'nai Mitzvah Syllabus-Conservative
- What Else Can You Learn?
- Virtual Learning
- 15. Is Madonna Jewish?
- Understanding the Roots
- What Is Kabbalah?
- The Five Layers
- Kabbalah Is Jewish
- Kabbalah Is Not Judaism
- Trying Pop Kabbalah
- Is Kabbalah for You?
- 16. Do They Hate You Too?
- Centuries of Jew Hating
- Eyes Wide Open
- Should You Be Concerned?
- Is There a Bull's-Eye On Your Back?
- Fertile Ground for Antisemites
- How to Avoid Haters
- What Can You Do About It?
- Reporting Hate Crimes and Beyond
- You're Not Alone
- A Wave of Holocaust Denial
- Finding the Jewish Activist in You
- Show Your Chutzpah
- 17. Everyone Matters
- The Gloved One
- Why So Many Lawyers?
- Making It Your Own
- 18. Children of Israel
- It Just Feels Different
- Bill Said It Best
- Peace or Pipe Dream?
- Act for Israel
- All Corners of the Globe
- Am Yisrael Chai!
- Appendix 1. Thirty-Nine Types of Work Forbidden on Shabbat
- Appendix 2. Sample Conversion Courses
- Glossary
- Resources
- Index
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