Review by Booklist Review
The lesson of this brightly illustrated book is that growing a friend is a lot like growing a plant. Both take time and patience and work. Gillingham begins with a boy and a girl, a pail, and the instruction, To grow a friend, first plant a seed in good soil, as a hummingbird drops a seed into their pail of dirt. Gillingham cleverly links what the two friends do on a summer day (for example, running through a sprinkler and playing on swings) with what's going on with the developing seed in the pail. What the plant needs water and sunshine and space to grow is what the children need, too. The book then concentrates on what good friends do for each other. Simple geometric shapes and vivid colors make the lessons stand out, and the book finishes with a wonderfully inclusive message about growing a garden of friends, pointing out that each one can sprout up in surprising places and there is always room for one more.--Fletcher, Connie Copyright 2015 Booklist
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Review by Publisher's Weekly Review
Friendships, Gillingham suggests, need tending-just like plants. "To grow a friend," she starts, "first plant a seed in good soil." A page turn shows a close-up of a boy and girl smiling over a bucket of soil, into which a bird drops a seed. The children, just two in a cast of ethnically diverse friends-in-the-making, have rounded heads and wide, Betty Boop eyes, a retro look that will be familiar to fans of the author's board books. There's lots of movement and activity as water sprays from a sprinkler in dynamic curves and the children swing from a tree and race downhill in a wheelbarrow. Gillingham keeps the friends-as-plants metaphor going: "If a friend is drooping, do something sweet," she advises, as the girl appears with an armful of flowers to cheer up the boy. The pair work out disputes ("Sometimes a friend bugs you"), make each other happy, and "grow" their circle of friends. Upbeat without glossing over the effort needed to see friendships through "rain and shine," it's a promising classroom readaloud. Ages 3-7. Agent: Amy Rennert, Amy Rennert Agency. (Jan.) © Copyright PWxyz, LLC. All rights reserved.
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Review by Horn Book Review
The texts for these attractive books give simple metaphorical tips for making a friends and cheering up--"don't let your friend get stuck in the weeds"; "go one stitch at a time"--while the illustrations show kids planting and nurturing a flower seed and sewing a fabric heart. For her pleasing compositions, Gillingham uses geometric shapes and patterns in springtime colors. [Review covers these titles: How to Grow a Friend and How to Mend a Heart.] (c) Copyright 2016. The Horn Book, Inc., a wholly owned subsidiary of Media Source, Inc. No redistribution permitted.
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Review by Kirkus Book Review
This attractive picture book for the very young from accomplished illustrator and debut author Gillingham explores a thoughtful analogy between gardening and friendship. The parallels between growing things and making new friends are illustrated with simple instructions, matched with Gillingham's pastel-shaded woodcut-and-collaged illustrations. Just like seeds and plants, friendships need to be sown, tended and cultivated. "A friend needs water / warm sunshine // and space to bloom." It is a two-way process: "To grow a friend, talk / and listen"; "Good friends stand by each other in rain / or shine." With friendships, as with flowers, things can go wrong: "Sometimes a friend bugs you." (Bugs literally buzz around their heads on a page where the friends are wrestling for control of a potted plant.) But "[t]o grow a friend, / chase the bugs away together!" The girl finds a solution to their argument by giving the boy a ride in a wheelbarrow. A subtly diverse selection of kids and adults are portrayed enjoying one another's company and working together to cultivate their gardens. Children, flowers, birds, trees and seasons are skillfully illustrated using multicolored patterns and shapes that will have considerable visual appeal for preschoolers. The slightly didactic message of tolerance and inclusiveness is made palatable by the gardening analogy, and this book will encourage young friendships to bloom. (Picture book. 2-4) Copyright Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.
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