- Subjects
- Published
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Somerville, MA :
Wisdom Publications
[2015]
- Language
- English
- Main Author
- Physical Description
- xiii, 337 pages ; 23 cm
- ISBN
- 9781614292487
- Introduction: Making Peace with a Life Upside Down
- I. Skills to Help with Each Day
- 1. Educating Family and Friends about Chronic Pain and Illness
- 2. Letting Go: A Not-To-Do List for the Chronically Ill
- 3. Asking for Help Can Be Your Gift to Others
- 4. Developing the Confidence to Say No
- 5. When the "Want Monster" Whispers in Your Ear
- 6. Complaining Is a Recipe for Suffering
- 7. Dealing with Tough Choice alter Tough Choice
- 8. The Many Benefits of Patience
- 9. Cultivating Kindness
- II. Mindfulness: Potent Medicine for Easing the Symptoms of Chronic Illness
- 10. Mindfulness Can Ease Physical Suffering by Easing Mental Suffering
- 11. Mindfulness Practices That Address Physical Discomfort
- 12. Formal Mindfulness Meditation Can Help Your Mind Help Your Body
- III. Responding Wisely to Troubling Thoughts and Emotions
- 13. Breaking Free from Stressful Thinking Patterns
- 14. When the Blues Come Calling
- 15. Surviving a Bad Mood with Grace
- 16. Shedding the Burden of Embarrassment
- IV. Special Challenges
- 17. Invisibility: When You Look Fine to Others
- 18. When You and Those You Love Are in Conflict
- 19. The Special Difficulties Faced by Young People Who Are Chronically Ill
- 20. Maximizing Your Chances of Success at the Doctor's Office
- 21. Sick Upon Sick: Handling an Acute Illness While Chronically Ill
- 22. The Pesky Issue of Sleep
- 23. Longing for That Pre-Illness Life
- 24. The Uncertainty of It All
- 25. Taking Care of the Caregivers
- V. Isolation and Loneliness
- 26. Quotations and Reflections on Loneliness
- 27. Healing Loneliness through Mindfulness
- 28. Coping with Isolation During Holidays and Other Gatherings
- VI. Enjoy the Life You Have
- 29. Beware of "Good Old Days Syndrome"
- 30. Why Not Me?
- 31. Don't Let Envy and Resentment Keep You from Enjoying the Life You Have
- 32. Slow Down and Savor Life
- 33. Appreciating the Wondrousness of the Human Body
- VII. Tor Family, Friends, Caregivers, and Anyone Concerned about Chronic Illness
- 34. Setting the Record Straight about Chronic Illness
- 35. What the Chronically 111 Hope Others Will Understand
- 36. "Oh No!": What the Chronically Ill Hope Others Won't Say
- 37. "Thank You!": What the Chronically Ill Hope Others Will Say
- 38. What's in a Name? The Harm Caused by Mislabeling Medical Conditions
- 39. Letting Go: A Not-To-Do List for Caregivers
- 40. Lessons for the Healthy from the Land of the Sick
- VIII. Last but Not Least
- 41. True Confessions
- 42. My Heartfelt Wishes for the Chronically Ill
- Afterword
- Acknowledgments
- About the Author