Unforbidden pleasures

Adam Phillips, 1954-

Book - 2016

""Unforbidden Pleasures" explores the philosophical, psychological, and social dynamics that govern human desire and shape our everyday reality"--

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Published
New York : Farrar, Straus and Giroux 2016.
Language
English
Main Author
Adam Phillips, 1954- (author)
Edition
First American edition
Physical Description
198 pages ; 22 cm
ISBN
9780374278021
  • Laying down the law
  • Tricks of obedience
  • Against self-criticism
  • Unforbidden pleasures
  • Life itself
  • Coda.
Review by New York Times Review

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Review by Booklist Review

Psychoanalyst Phillips (On Balance, 2010) uses the inestimable Oscar Wilde as his inspiration to explore the various meanings and importance attached to the concept of the unforbidden before moving on to Adam and Eve, our first parents, and the work of the world's greatest psychoanalytic thinkers, from Sigmund Freud to Melanie Klein. We think about forbidden pleasures, and often; To forbid something is to make it unforgettable, Phillips writes. That is, to forbid is to guarantee attention. But, Phillips contends, we can get as much pleasure from topics that are not forbidden. Although he admits that permitted pleasures are relatively harmless and that most of us believe harmful pleasures are better, he suggests that a great deal of pleasure can, in fact, be enjoyed in unforbidden activities. But how do you get people to change their pleasures, or stick to the pleasures that are approved? Alas, he has no definitive answers. Instead, he explores, in a wide-ranging discussion, such topics as ethics, great art, the pleasure of language, and the concept of obedience. The many books he touches on include Wilde's The Picture of Dorian Gray, Blake's The Marriage of Heaven and Hell, Nietzsche's Thus Spoke Zarathustra, and Milton's Paradise Lost. An erudite look at a subject most of us ignore, if we consider it at all.--Sawyers, June Copyright 2016 Booklist

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Review by Publisher's Weekly Review

Phillips (On Kissing, Tickling, and Being Bored), a British psychoanalyst, explores the tension between "forbidden" and "unforbidden" pleasures in this dense, erudite book. Going back to the story of Genesis and to Milton's retelling of it in Paradise Lost, he argues that modern Western culture remains constrained by the association between the pleasurable and the taboo. In reality, Phillips asserts, people often draw more pleasure from the ordinary things in life-a morning cup of coffee, one another's company, kindness-than from forbidden acts. He goes on to name more unforbidden pleasures, including self-criticism and obedience, noting about the latter that "whom we obey and how we obey-and what we are doing when we obey-will be the defining factors in our lives." Philips suggests that people can become less judgmental about permissible types of pleasure by changing their moral vocabulary. In this, he draws inspiration from the writings of Oscar Wilde, Friedrich Nietzsche, and Sigmund Freud, each of whom, he shows, recommended the replacement of certain words with others-"beauty" rather than "goodness," "delight" rather than "duty"-in order to reshape people's underlying ideas. Digressive and often paradoxical, this slim volume is rich in psychological, philosophical, and literary insight. Agent: Amy Rennert, Amy Rennert Agency. (May) © Copyright PWxyz, LLC. All rights reserved.

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Review by Library Journal Review

Traditionally, "forbidden fruit" has been viewed as a harmful but supreme lure for humanity. Psychoanalyst and visiting professor Phillips (English, Univ. of York, UK; Going Sane) examines the effects of this outlook on psychology and the social order. Beginning with Oscar Wilde but dense with other classic references, the author discusses the concepts of forbidden and unforbidden pleasures. The former can be understood as a reflection of the Ten Commandments and includes transgressions against other moral principles. Phillips notes how psychoanalysis itself focuses on the forbidden. Less-intuitive notions of pleasures such as obedience and self-criticism are then discussed. Drawing on British psychoanalytic work, he details life-enhancing forms of unforbidden pleasure to include affection, friendship, and imagination, which are considered as necessary antidotes to the tyranny of forbidden pleasure on social life. The book concludes with a discussion of the meaning of life and its enjoyment. The author intimates that modern Western society would benefit from more emphasis on unforbidden pleasure in morality and social organization but provides no easy pathway to such a change. VERDICT An abstract but bold social critique and meditation that may require a humanistic background to appreciate fully.--Antoinette Brinkman, formerly with Southwest Indiana Mental Health Ctr. Lib., Evansville © Copyright 2016. Library Journals LLC, a wholly owned subsidiary of Media Source, Inc. No redistribution permitted.

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Review by Kirkus Book Review

What would society look like if it did not promote the idea "that we are primarily a danger to ourselves and others"? In his latest philosophical exploration of mind, selfhood, and desire, prolific British psychoanalyst Phillips (Becoming Freud: The Making of a Psychoanalyst, 2014, etc.) asks how the idea of forbidden pleasures shapes thought and behavior. "This book," he writes, "is about whether the unforbidden pleasures have something more to tell us, or at least something else to tell us, about pleasure than the forbidden ones." The "tyranny of the forbidden," he maintains, "is not that it forbids, but that it tells us what we wantto do the forbidden thing." What is forbidden, then, "narrows our minds, narrows our picture of ourselves"in short, it circumscribes our freedom to know ourselves. Phillips draws on wide-ranging sources from literature (Shakespeare, Milton, Wilde), philosophy (Nietzsche, Jonathan Lear, Stuart Hampshire), and psychology (Freud, of course, and also Jacques Lacan, D.W. Winnicott, and neuropsychologist Brenda Milner) in his discussions of obedience, self-criticism, sexual taboos, and the concept of the superego. "The Freudian superego," writes Phillips, "is a boring and vicious soliloquist with an audience of one," a "made-up voice" distinct from the religious and cultural legacy of conscience. The patient undergoing analysis "discovers he is the casualty of forgotten obediences," not all of which he may want to discard. Psychoanalysis encourages a conversation about the forbidden, allowing the patient a chance to make choices "about which rules he believes are worth following, and which rules he has merely been following, consciously or unconsciously, for fear of punishment." Finding pleasure in the unforbidden, Phillips suggests, means "finding new kinds of heroes and heroines (or dispensing with them)" and redefining what we mean by satisfaction. A dense, challenging, provocative meditation on morality and identity. Copyright Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.

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