We A manifesto for women everywhere

Gillian Anderson, 1968-

Book - 2017

Inspires women to use practical, psychological, and spiritual tools to create a more fulfilling way of life and to attain happiness and freedom from the have-it-all superwoman culture.

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Published
New York : Atria Books 2017.
Language
English
Main Author
Gillian Anderson, 1968- (author)
Other Authors
Jennifer Nadel (author)
Edition
First Atria books hardcover edition
Physical Description
xxiii, 360 pages ; 23 cm
Bibliography
Includes bibliographical references (pages 333-347) and index.
ISBN
9781501126277
  • The Journey
  • Why Now?
  • How We Works
  • Why We Wrote We
  • We's Vision
  • Part 1. The Essentials
  • Essential Practice 1. Gratitude: A Mind-Altering Substance
  • Essential Practice 2. Gentleness: Changing the Messages We Give Ourselves
  • Essential Practice 3. Responsibility: Taking Care of Ourselves
  • Essential Practice 4. Meditation: Creating a Safe Space and Making Way for the Sacred
  • Part 2. The 9 Principles
  • Principle 1. Honesty: Getting Real
  • Principle 2. Acceptance: Making Friends with What Is
  • Principle 3. Courage: Ending the Victim Trap
  • Principle 4. Trust: Living Without Fear
  • Principle 5. Humility: Unmasking Our Ego
  • Principle 6. Peace: Ending the Conflict Within
  • Principle 7. Love: Transforming Relationships
  • Principle 8. Joy: Living Fully
  • Principle 9. Kindness: Love in Action
  • Part 3. The Manifesto
  • A World in Need of Love
  • Appendixes
  • Resources
  • Further Reading
  • Endnotes
  • Index
Review by Booklist Review

Actress Anderson and London-based journalist Nadel are friends in addition to being the coauthors of this self-help and health guide for women, and it's evident in their book's warm tone. We, denoting both this book and the transformative movement toward a value-focused existence that the authors wish to spark with it, is the authors' synthesis of nine principles that have been taught by sages and saints throughout the ages. Each principle (honesty, acceptance, courage, trust, humility, peace, love, joy, kindness) is described and followed by exercises, many of them off-page journaling, to deepen readers' understanding. (Better to do them quickly and sloppily than not at all, the authors encourage.) Quotes from well- and lesser-known women, text boxes, and various typefaces and sizes create page interest and make the book easy to use as a reference. Interested readers will find what they expect and more: both specific and more holistic advice, essential practices, affirmations, reflections, aphorisms, and mantras. The overall effect is a journey by small steps, which could be inspiring material for discussion groups.--Bostrom, Annie Copyright 2017 Booklist

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Review by Publisher's Weekly Review

Actor Anderson and journalist Nadel's feminist manifesto is written as a practical guide for women, using many personal insights and struggles as the beginning point for what they hope will be a miraculous journey of individual and collective healing. The book is divided into two main sections, the first highlighting four "essential practices," or mental adjustments (such as gratitude) that are integral to the success of the implementation of the subsequent nine principles that compose the other main section. These principles take the form of abstractions such as peace, joy, and love, but the book takes these notions out of the realm of the abstract and makes the reader work for them. Each principle chapter includes quotes, anecdotes, and exercises that require real effort; these lend the book more heft and spare it from being just another recitation of self-help platitudes. (Mar.) © Copyright PWxyz, LLC. All rights reserved.

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Review by Library Journal Review

Acclaimed actress Anderson (The EarthEnd Saga) and journalist Nadel (Pretty Thing) provide a step-by-step strategy for women on how to achieve one's potential and find happiness. Drawing from the abundance of popular self-help techniques, such as meditation and visualization, a way for women to overcome negative aspects of life is detailed. Interspersed throughout each chapter are the authors' personal reflections on a particular practice or issue. For example, Anderson describes how meditation helped with her struggle of finding inner value in the entertainment industry, which she feels places too much worth on outward appearance. This work culminates in nine principles by which to adhere, such as humility and kindness, as "a path of love-for ourselves and for the world." By focusing on the female experience and combining many well-known personal growth procedures, this guide book offers a somewhat fresh perspective. VERDICT Fans of Anderson and Nadel will be drawn to their accounts of striving toward self-actualization. However, others may want to pass on this compendium of a much-examined topic.-Mary Jennings, -Camano Island Lib., WA © Copyright 2017. Library Journals LLC, a wholly owned subsidiary of Media Source, Inc. No redistribution permitted.

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Review by Kirkus Book Review

A series of practical steps for women to self-improve and help each other.In this collaboration, actress Anderson (co-author: The Sound of Seas: The EarthEnd Saga #3, 2016, etc.) and journalist Nadel (Pretty Thing, 2015, etc.) combine elements of self-help techniques, behavior therapy, meditation, and friendly conversations with a best friend or therapist. "WE is a journey based on a set of nine principles that have been taught by sages and saints throughout the ages and which have the power to transform your life and the world around you," write the authors. "It isn't a lifestyle choice to be bolted onto ego-driven living; it's a path of radical transformation that puts compassion for the world at its core." The authors claim that by following the numerous exercises included under each guiding principlehonesty, acceptance, courage, trust, humility, peace, love, joy, and kindnesswomen will notice a shift in their attitudes toward others and how others treat them. The assignments, which can be accomplished in small increments, require the use of a journal or notebook. Since they build on one another, readers should start at the beginning rather than jump to a particular principle. Personal comments by both authors help readers understand how the nine beliefs have affected their lives, and they include a useful summary of each of the values as well as relevant affirmations from a variety of historical figures, including Helen Keller, Anne Frank, and Rosa Parks. Though the authors don't provide much new or groundbreaking information, the way they have grouped it together, distilled the essence of each practice, and provided a road map of tasks will enable readers to actually set a plan in motion. "You have nothing to lose but your unhappiness," they write, "and the world has everything to gain." Sunny, easy-to-follow self-help principles. Copyright Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.

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AN INVITATION TO YOU 'Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?' Mary Oliver At some point in our lives, most of us feel the gentle calling of our soul. Sometimes it's so quiet we can barely hear it - a soft tapping. No louder than a leaf falling from a tree. We may imagine we didn't hear it. Or perhaps it is louder and takes the form of a persistent ache, a nagging sense that there is something missing. 'Is this it?' we wonder when we wake in the dead of night or find ourselves caught in the treadmill of our daily grind. It may be a hint of loneliness that endures even in the company of friends. Or a sense of injustice and a desire to change things that feels urgent and necessary, but also hopeless before it even begins. Perhaps our heart tells us there is a better way of living, that we need to stop ignoring what really matters - the suffering of others and our planet's future - but our head insists we're naïve and tells us to knuckle down and get on with our lives as they are. For others the call may take the form of a crisis - a break-up or breakdown, a betrayal or loss. Or perhaps it's addiction, depression, or another serious illness. However it comes, it is an invitation to take a journey. You may resist. Many of us have resisted it for years, even decades. Ultimately it's your choice. But it will wait for you patiently, tapping daily or every so often in small and big ways to remind you that, in truth, you can't avoid it if you truly want to live a meaningful life. If you've heard that call, this book is for you. It's for women who want happiness and meaning. It will guide you towards the path to inner peace and provide the power to help transform the world in which we all live.   THE JOURNEY WE is a journey based on a set of nine principles that have been taught by sages and saints throughout the ages and which have the power to transform your life and the world around you. It isn't a lifestyle choice to be bolted onto our normal me-centred way of living; it's a path of radical transformation that puts compassion for the world at its core. Use this book both as a guide and a source of inspiration. If you're hurting, it will help you heal. If you're lost, it will guide you home. If you're searching for a purpose, it will gently lead you towards fulfilment. We arrive in this world without instruction manuals and we grow up without an emotional toolkit. So it's easy to lose our way. As we go through life we amass emotional scar tissue from the knocks that we inevitably take. We become like electrical circuit boards that have got so clogged up by the silt of life that we can no longer connect with ourselves and our core beliefs, let alone with the world beyond. All of us start out in life with a strong internal value system - a sense of what's right and wrong and what's fair and what's unjust. But then life intervenes. In the cold light of reality our ideals can quickly seem naïve, unrealistic and untenable. However strong and heartfelt our intentions, it's hard to give effect to our beliefs when we're struggling, stressed or in emotional pain. Before long we've abandoned those values in favour of the rules we're taught by the world. Succeed, compete and accumulate. Deep down we feel conflicted, but at the end of the day we each have to get by, don't we? A gulf emerges between the values we choose for our personal lives and those we live by in the world at large. In our homes and families we believe in sharing and making sure everyone's OK. But once we step outside our front door the rules change. The common good is replaced with the quest for personal success. Within seconds we dissolves into me and we're elbowing each other out of the way in the race to get to the finishing line. Only, of course, there isn't one - just a horizon that moves further away the closer we get. The Nine Principles in this book heal our wounds and return us to our centre. As you learn to apply them to your life one by one, you will be taken on a journey from me to WE . Loneliness will evaporate. You will discover a sense of purpose and you will be freed - freed to live a life that is authentic, happy and meaningful. Excerpted from We: A Manifesto for Women Everywhere by Gillian Anderson, Jennifer Nadel All rights reserved by the original copyright owners. Excerpts are provided for display purposes only and may not be reproduced, reprinted or distributed without the written permission of the publisher.