You are enough

Jen Petro-Roy

Book - 2019

This self-help guide for young readers delivers real talk about eating disorders and body image; tools and information for recovery; and suggestions for dealing with the media messages that contribute so much to disordered eating, written in a easy-to-understand, conversational way.

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Genres
Informational works
Self-help publications
Published
New York : Feiwel and Friends 2019.
Language
English
Main Author
Jen Petro-Roy (author)
Edition
First edition
Physical Description
xlviii, 283 pages ; 22 cm
Audience
9-12.
Bibliography
Includes bibliographical references (pages 275-283).
ISBN
9781250151025
  • MY JOURNEY. The fight
  • Path to the other side
  • My limitations
  • ABOUT EATING DISORDERS. What types of treatments are available?
  • Individual talk therapy
  • Psychiatrists
  • Family therapy
  • Medical care
  • Dietitians
  • Support groups
  • Family-based treatment
  • Outpatient care
  • Partial hospitalization
  • Inpatient care
  • Residential care
  • How to find a therapist
  • TOOLS AND INFORMATION FOR RECOVERY. Listening to your body
  • Why is eating so hard?
  • Intuitive eating
  • Exercise: are you hungry?
  • Nutrition: more than a food group
  • Healthy eating
  • Chronic illness and eating disorders
  • Nutritionists
  • Fat isn't bad
  • Retraining your body to eat regularly again
  • Refeeding syndrome and dealing with discomfort
  • Self-esteem
  • The scale does not dictate your self-worth
  • Why finding joy is hard
  • Feeling happier
  • Finding contentment and joy
  • Anxiety
  • Trusting your body
  • The diversity of people's brains
  • Tool kit of distress tolerance skills
  • Types of anxiety and techniques
  • Distract
  • Make a list of pros and cons
  • IMPROVE the moment: Imagery-Meaning-Prayer-Relaxation-One thing at a time-Vacation-Encouragement
  • - Wise mind ACCEPTS: Activity-Contributing-Comparison-Emotions-Pushing away-Thoughts-Sensations
  • Self-soothing: taste, smell, sight,hearing, touch
  • Use your voice and feeling confident
  • Speaking up to friends and family
  • What are you afraid of?
  • Cognitive reframing: changing your thoughts
  • How thoughts, feelings, and emotions are connected
  • Learning to accept others' opinions, even when they're negative
  • Watching your thought cycle
  • Changing negative thoughts
  • Relaxation is important for recovery
  • Learning to be still and other ways of relaxing
  • Yoga
  • Sleep
  • Mindfulness exercises
  • A peaceful minute
  • Thinking of your eating disorder as a person
  • Using your voice amid the clamor of "its" voice
  • Admitting struggles and being vulnerable
  • It's okay to need help
  • It's okay to reach out
  • Saying the things you're afraid to say
  • SOCIETY, ROLE MODELS, FAMILY, & MEDIA. Is BMI nonsense? Why it exists
  • "Obese" is a made-up label
  • Why you should ignore the media's "war on obesity"
  • Being underweight is dangerous
  • Puberty and body diversity
  • Gender and puberty
  • How I feel about my appearance and fitting in
  • It's okay to be different
  • Size and appearance obsession can hurt us
  • Find what you're good at
  • Impostor Syndrome and Perfectionism
  • Sports and possible harmful messages about exercise
  • Sometimes you feel bad about yourself, and that's okay
  • What do you really want out of life?
  • Adopting role models
  • Admiration, not envy
  • Media literacy
  • How family and environment factor into eating disorders
  • When family makes your disordered eating worse
  • "Fat talk"
  • Expressing with "I feel when..." statements
  • Family issues
  • Encouraging friends
  • The pressure to look perfect
  • AS YOU RECOVER. When your eating disorder is more important than family and friends
  • Are you lying to hide your disorder or excessive exercise?
  • Disordered eating may make you feel better in the moment, but it hurts in the end
  • Connecting to people you love will make you feel better
  • You can't have your eating disorder forever
  • Making new friends
  • Earning back the trust of people you've hurt
  • Strengthening relationships
  • Clothes shopping and sizes
  • Don't let a tag determine your worth!
  • Sizes are inconsistent
  • Finding clothes that fit your body and budget
  • Body image and changes
  • Dieting doesn't help
  • Your body is supposed to change throughout your life
  • It gets better
  • Will I relapse? Struggling is okay
  • Keeping lapses from becoming relapses
  • Scholarship funds for treatment
  • Body-positive and inspirational fiction and nonfiction reads.
Review by Booklist Review

Resources on eating disorders for the middle-grade set are few and far between, but Petro-Roy writes for this age group with knowledge, compassion, empathy, and inclusivity. While she identifies as a straight, cis white female, she makes a concerted effort to acknowledge and include stories and statistics pertaining to men and boys, the queer community, and people of different racial or cultural backgrounds. After relaying her personal struggles with anorexia nervosa and her journey to recovery, Petro-Roy organizes her book into four parts that can be read in any order: About Eating Disorders, Tools and Information for Recovery, Society, Role Models, Family, and Media, and As You Recover. Throughout, Petro-Roy shares her experiences, fears, and failures, while emphasizing that everyone's stories and bodies are different and that's OK! She also includes information on a range of treatment options, openly acknowledging how expense can impact one's choices. Petro-Roy's encouragement and honesty will speak to readers who might be dealing with disordered eating, and the book's information, exercises, and resources will hopefully set them on their own paths to recovery. (For a fictional exploration of a similar topic, see Petro-Roy's Good Enough, on page xx.)--Julia Smith Copyright 2010 Booklist

From Booklist, Copyright (c) American Library Association. Used with permission.
Review by School Library Journal Review

Gr 5 Up-Part personal narrative, part self-help manual, this compassionate work offers insight and options for eating disorder recovery. It is assumed that readers are familiar with the topic, meaning little time is spent defining eating disorders or describing their symptoms. Instead, the focus is on recovery. Relevant skills from research-proven therapy practices are presented in an accessible way, and medical, nutritional, and mental health experts are cited throughout. Social and societal pressures that contribute to disordered eating are countered with subjects like body positivity. Chapters end in simple exercises for readers to employ what they have learned. Petro-Roy shares her own story as an eating disorder survivor throughout the book, making the text personal and relatable. The tone of the book is casual, while managing to give the topic the seriousness it deserves. Emphasis is placed on how dangerous eating disorders can be, and the importance of recovery. The 12-page table of contents makes it easy to find specific content, while recommended resources and a bibliography provide ample opportunity for further reading. VERDICT An excellent choice for libraries needing new eating disorder resources, especially those serving middle schoolers.-Alex Graves, Manchester City Library, NH © Copyright 2019. Library Journals LLC, a wholly owned subsidiary of Media Source, Inc. No redistribution permitted.

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