A lover's discourse

Xiaolu Guo, 1973-

Book - 2020

"A Chinese woman moves to London to start a new life. She knew she would be lonely, adrift in the city, but will her new relationship bring her closer to this land she has chosen, and will their love give her a home? A Lover's Discourse is a love story told through fragments of conversations between the two lovers. Playing with language and the cultural differences that her narrator encounters as she settles into post-Brexit Britain, Xiaolu Guo shows us how this couple navigate communication and their romance, whether on their unmoored houseboat or in a cramped and stifling apartment in east London. Suffused with a wonderful sense of humor, this intimate and tender novel asks what it means to make a home and a life in a new land&q...uot;--

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Genres
Romance fiction
Domestic fiction
Published
New York : Grove Press 2020.
Language
English
Main Author
Xiaolu Guo, 1973- (author)
Edition
First Grove Atlantic hardcover edition
Physical Description
271 pages ; 22 cm
ISBN
9780802149527
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Review by Booklist Review

A young Chinese woman, recently orphaned, moves to London in 2015 to work on a PhD in this playful, poetic novel from Guo (A Concise Chinese-English Dictionary for Lovers, 2007). The unnamed narrator is lonely until she meets an Australian-German-British landscape architect, who impresses her by wandering off from a sociable picnic to pick elderflowers. The two are soon sharing an apartment, buying a houseboat together, bouncing around the globe, conceiving a child, and considering marriage. The novel, inspired in part by literary critic Roland Barthes' meditation with the same title, is composed of brief, emotionally resonant chapters, in which the two lovers talk about their different responses to their varied experiences. Enticingly spare, often wry, and just as often touching, the novel addresses the narrator's sense of dislocation in what she refers to as a "floating world," and the momentary satisfactions of feeling connection and making sense of a confusing world. An ordinary sequence of life events is illuminated by the perspective of an outsider trying to craft a new home.

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Review by Publisher's Weekly Review

Guo's poignant if uneven meditation on belonging, language, and the nature of love (after the NBCC Award-winning memoir Nine Continents) takes the form of a series of fragmentary scenes and ruminations addressed by a woman to her husband. The unnamed narrator, an art historian, leaves China for London in 2015 to work on her doctoral thesis about Chinese reproductions of classic Western artworks. After a few months, she meets the man who will become her husband at a book club. As the years pass, she struggles with language barriers and cultural differences amid growing hostility toward foreigners as the Brexit campaign heats up, and with the couple's difficult relationship, including an unexpected pregnancy. Through analysis of texts by Walter Benjamin, Roland Barthes, and Marguerite Duras, the narrator explores her own identity and desire to build a family ("What did Barthes know about love?" she asks, reflecting on a text that shares the novel's title). The husband's and wife's opposing natures clash more than they attract: she needs crowds and the vibrant life of her own culture; he prefers the quiet solitude of life on a canal boat and is inattentive to domestic responsibilities. While discussion of the narrator's PhD work is fascinating, the tidy ending feels discordant with her lingering questions. Though elegantly written, this love story fails to convince. Agent: Rebecca Carter, Janklow & Nesbit. (Oct.)

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Review by Library Journal Review

Noted British writer/filmmaker Guo (I Am China) follows up the memoir Nine Continents with a novel documenting the relationship between an unnamed couple. In London during the initial period of Brexit, a newly arrived Chinese scholarship student working on her dissertation about artists in China who can produce counterfeit artwork in three days for about $50 meets an Australian German man, a landscape architect, at a book group. The two soon become lovers and move in together. What follows is a flowing work, narrated by the woman, that details their three years together through a series of their conversations. What adds to the work's realism is the depiction of the young woman having to struggle to communicate her thoughts owing to her inability to fully comprehend British English metaphors while also translating sayings from Chinese to English. VERDICT This beautifully told and gently introspective story of a young couple touches upon a host of relatable topics, from cultural and generational differences to socioeconomical perceptions and relationship issues between genders. Readers will have much to ponder, and book groups especially will appreciate.--Shirley Quan, Orange Cty. P.L., Santa Ana, CA

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Review by Kirkus Book Review

Two lovers merge their lives, but not their identities, across boundaries of culture, nationality, and ideology. The unnamed narrator of this novel in epistolary fragments is a young woman from a rural town in Southern China who has come to London to pursue a Ph.D. in visual anthropology in the winter of 2015, just prior to the Brexit referendum. Both her parents have recently died, and she doesn't know whether to attribute her loneliness to her identity as a foreigner in Britain, to her newly orphaned status, or to another more essential part of her nature she comes to understand as "distance pain, an ache or a lust for a place where you want to belong." Her desolation is somewhat ameliorated when she meets the you to whom these fragments are addressed--a landscape architect she meets picking elderflowers on a picnic organized by mutual friends. "The elderflower picker," as she terms him, turns out to be another culturally displaced person, the child of an Englishwoman and a German man who grew up on the east coast of Australia before moving to Germany in his late teens and to England as an adult. Their relationship quickly develops from this chance meeting to a full-blown love affair, co-habitation on a houseboat in the London canals, parenthood, and travel to German farmland, Australian tourist towns, and an enclave of tradesmen in Southern China whose job is to reproduce great works of art for sale on the open market. Modeled after Roland Barthes' structuralist masterpiece, also titled A Lover's Discourse, Guo's latest meditation on the nature of belonging asks many of the same questions as her earlier works--Can language create identity? Can love create a home? Are the differences between cultures, genders, nationalities, and personal ideologies what pull us apart, or are lifelong conversations, even arguments, about these things what help us understand what it means to truly be together? A fiercely intelligent book whose exploration of the philosophy of identity is trenchant and moving. Copyright (c) Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.

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