Stop avoiding stuff 25 microskills to face your fears & do it anyway

Matthew S. Boone

Book - 2020

"To fear is to be human. But fear can also keep us stuck living lives that are stale, stagnant, or downright miserable. In Stop Avoiding Stuff, three psychologists offer 25 "microskills" to help readers identify how their fears are holding them back. Drawing on proven-effective acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT), readers will learn how to get comfortable with discomfort, do the very things that scare them, and use values-based action to live their very best lives"--

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Published
Oakland, CA : New Harbinger Publications [2020]
Language
English
Main Author
Matthew S. Boone (author)
Other Authors
Jennifer Gregg (author), Lisa W. Coyne
Physical Description
176 pages ; 18 cm
Bibliography
Includes bibliographical references.
ISBN
9781684036059
  • Welcome to This Book
  • Meet Your Avoidance
  • Part 1. Build Awareness of the Moment to Seize the Moment
  • Microskill 1. Get Curious About the World
  • Microskill 2. Observe All the Comings and Goings
  • Microskill 3. Deepen Awareness of Your Inner Experience
  • Part 2. Feel Your Feelings Without Running Away
  • Microskill 4. Understand How Your Emotions Work
  • Microskill 5. Feel Emotions-Don't Fight or Feed Them
  • Microskill 6. Practice Willingness
  • Microskill 7. Breathe In and Out of Pain
  • Part 3. Free Yourself from the Tyranny of Fearful Thoughts
  • Microskill 8. Step Back and Notice Your Thinking
  • Microskill 9. Admit the Truth ("I Don't Know")
  • Microskill 10. Emphasise Workability over Truth
  • Microskill 11. Let Go of Being Right
  • Part 4. Shift Your View So It's Bigger Than Your Fears
  • Microskill 12. Author Your Values
  • Microskill 13. Make Values a Verb
  • Microskill 14. Change the Small Stuff
  • Microskill 15. Take Perspective
  • Microskill 16. Be the "You" You Want to Be
  • Microskill 17. Make One Small, Bold Move at a Time
  • Part 5. Take Small Steps Toward More Engagement
  • Microskill 18. Notice Positive Emotions Too
  • Microskill 19. Practice Gratitude
  • Microskill 20. Tip Toward the Amazing
  • Microskill 21. Be Gentle with Yourself
  • Microskill 22. Spread Lovingkindness to Others
  • Part 6. Get Through Avoidance Urges and Get Going: On the Spot Strategies
  • Microskill 23. Five Thinking Traps to Notice and Spring Free From
  • Microskill 24. Nine Ways to Disentangle from Your Mind
  • Microskill 25. Ten Strategies for Showing Up with Willingness
  • Acknowledgments
  • Resources
  • References
Review by Publisher's Weekly Review

Social worker Boone (Mindfulness and Acceptance in Social Work), and psychologists Gregg (Diabetes Lifestyle Book) and Coyne (Stuff That's Loud), share in this informative work lessons on how to face fear and forge ahead. Each chapter is based on a "microskill," which the authors define as a way of relating to thoughts, feelings, and circumstances. For example, "Deepening Awareness" means paying attention to internal and external feelings, and "Notice Your Thinking" focuses on one's ability to understand the process of how one comes to thoughts rather than the thoughts themselves. The authors recommend readers "Let Go of Being Right" by releasing the urge to always "win" in discussions or argument with others, and to determine and live out one's values by "Making Values a Verb." Brief exercises (termed "teeny tiny practices") help readers implement the skills and include writing flow charts for one's thought process and creating a map of all things one wishes to control. Each lesson can be read on its own, making the volume ideal for dipping in and out of. This delightful, information-packed guide will appeal to self-help readers of all types. (Nov.)

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