Review by Kirkus Book Review
A comprehensive manual focuses on providing care for an aging relative. Perkins offers a wide-ranging and detailed guide to caring for aging loved ones, particularly as they develop dementia, Alzheimer's disease, or other cognitive limitations. Based on both her own years of being a caretaker for aging relatives and research into the topic, the author describes many aspects of elder care, from making the home a safe place for a person with diminished cognition to handling the emotional challenges of memory loss. The book also addresses the impact of caregiving on the caregiver, beginning with a reminder of the therapeutic benefits of laughter ("It will lower your tension, your blood pressure, loosen your muscles, boost your immune system, and release those wonderful endorphins which are natural pain killers and mood enhancers--for free, no prescription necessary"). With checklists and templates, the book guides readers through such practical matters as establishing medical and financial power of attorney, maintaining a medication list, preparing for emergencies and respite care, and evaluating nursing homes. Perkins encourages readers to help their loved ones maintain their dignity even when they seem unaware of their circumstances, with advice on assisting with personal care and providing ways for those with diminished speech skills to communicate their needs. Although there are frequent doses of humor, the author's tone is never glib, and she treats the needs of both patients and caregivers with sensitivity. The manual explores difficult topics, like end-of-life planning and the high cost of residential care, in thoughtful ways while presenting all the necessary information. Other subjects, such as determining when an elder is no longer capable of driving, managing meltdowns and other behavioral issues, and feeding, are also covered in depth. The guide is of use to those who are caring for an aging relative at home as well as those who are overseeing a loved one's treatment in a nursing home. The layout and organization of the manual make it a convenient reference book as well as a work that readers can peruse cover-to-cover. The volume is solidly written and informative, based on concrete data and real-world experiences, making it a useful resource for those dealing with the needs of aging family or friends. A valuable, sympathetic guide to the highs and lows of elder care. Copyright (c) Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.
Copyright (c) Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.
