The myth of surrender A novel

Kelly O'Connor McNees

Book - 2022

"What if the most important decision of your life was not yours to make? This vivid and powerful novel follows two women whose paths intersect at a maternity home in the "Baby Scoop Era." In 1960, free-spirited Doreen is a recent high-school grad and waitress in a Chicago diner. She doesn't know Margie, sixteen and bookish, who lives a sheltered suburban life, but they soon meet when unplanned pregnancies send them to the Holy Family Home for the Wayward in rural Illinois. Assigned as roommates because their due dates line up, Margie and Doreen navigate Holy Family’s culture of secrecy and shame and become fast friends as the weight of their coming decision -- to keep or surrender their babies -- becomes clear. Except,... they soon realize, the decision has already been made for them. Holy Family, like many of the maternity homes where 1.5 million women "relinquished" their babies in what is now known as the Baby Scoop Era, is not interested in what the birth mothers want. In its zeal to make the babies "legitimate" in closed adoptions, Holy Family manipulates and bullies birth mothers, often coercing them to sign away their parental rights while still under the effects of anesthesia. What happens next, as their babies are born and they leave Holy Family behind, will force each woman to confront the depths and limits of motherhood and friendship, and fight to reclaim control over their own lives. Written by the acclaimed author of The Lost Summer of Louisa May Alcott and Undiscovered Country, The Myth of Surrender explores a hidden chapter of American history that still reverberates across the lives of millions of women and their children."--provided by publisher.

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Genres
Historical fiction
Published
New York : Pegasus Books 2022.
Language
English
Main Author
Kelly O'Connor McNees (author)
Edition
First Pegasus books hardcover edition
Physical Description
322 pages ; 24 cm
ISBN
9781643139302
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Review by Booklist Review

In 1960, Doreen and Margie are very different yet share the same problem: unwed pregnancy. Sicilian Doreen is a young but worldly Chicago waitress who dreams of fame as a singer. At a concert, she meets Mosel, a quiet, studious Black man who's heading off to college; she enters the relationship with eyes wide open. Meanwhile, 16-year-old Margie, a rule-following good suburban girl is raped by a family acquaintance. She is so naïve she doesn't even realize how "babies come out." Both end up at Holy Family Home for the Wayward, a Catholic facility allowing a "noble choice to make up for the sinful one." Room, board, and medical care are provided, but only if the young women give up their babies for adoption. One keeps her child; the other does not. The novel examines the psychological manipulation of the young women, family dynamics, lack of agency, and issues engendered by adoption legislation privileging adoptive parents' privacy over all other considerations. Drawing on oral histories, McNees (Undiscovered Country, 2018) convincingly dramatizes the consequences of what is now known as the "Baby Scoop Era."

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