Chapter 1 He was an artist. A prolific painter of merit and distinction. He impressed with his boldness and ingenuity. He liked to shock and bewilder. He refined this aesthetic of orderly, exaggerated confusion over many years. He gained admirers, patrons, imitators. "Parrots" is what he called the younger artists he felt were trying to replicate his flair. One reviewer wrote about feeling "emotionally mauled" by his work. All the time I knew him, he never wavered from his claim that his only obsession was producing more work and never burning out or fading away. He received fan mail at our apartment--cards and letters would arrive from all over the country, even from Europe. Sometimes they would simply be addressed to the Artist, which made him roll his eyes in mock humility. He was discussed and interpreted by students. He would give guest lectures where those in attendance would ask him to clarify and expand on his work and to share any advice he could with aspiring artists. He was not famous the way a musician or actor is. But in a particular niche of surrealist devotees, he was revered and celebrated. But none of them knew him the way I did. I knew him in the most intimate ways one person can know another. I knew him in a way no one else did, not his fans or friends or family. I knew him, I believe, as he knew himself. Over our many years together I bore witness to the invisible anatomy that formed his identity. They thought he was immune to trends, to fitting in. He was not. He required a commonwealth of reaction and sought acceptance. He was loud in everything he did. Some realizations about those closest to us arrive in a flash. Other insights take decades to form. My partner's work conveyed something spiritual, but he was so human after all, mortal, a man who, like so many others, grew less interested, less curious, less attentive over time. It was both endearing and disappointing. He was, I came to see, more than anything, a conformist. We weren't miserable together. We fought like any couple, especially when we were young. But in later years we would quarrel over nonsense like what temperature to set the thermostat. Some evenings during our first years together, we would drink white wine and speak broken French to each other. Even if we didn't completely understand it, we loved the sound of the language. As we grew older, we spent more time apart, even when we were both home in the apartment. He despised aging and didn't trust his crumbling body. The love I'd felt for him faded and detached. There was nothing to hold it in place. No more mystery. Nothing to learn. Wonder was replaced with awareness. By the end, it wasn't just familiarity. I had a total and complete understanding of him. He used to say I was moody and too sympathetic for my own good. He said I avoided confrontation and that he'd spent years trying to make me less anxious, less meek and mild, and that I was always in some kind of inner revolt. He worried about trivialities just as much as I did. The difference was, unlike me, he could hide it. Before he died, when he was very sick, he told me how frightened he was. He was terrified of becoming obsolete and forgotten. He'd never admitted being scared before that. Never. He said when you're so close to death, when it's right there, the depth of fear is enormous. He didn't want to die. He desperately wanted more time. He said he had so much more he wanted to do. He said he was scared for me, too, scared that I would have to go through the end of life alone. He was right about that. I am near the end now, and I am alone. Very old and very much alone. I have been both for some time, surrounded by the listless stacks and heavy piles of a life already lived: vinyl records, empty flowerpots, clothing, dishes, photo albums, magazines about art, drawings, letters from friends, the library of paperback books lining my shelves. It's no wonder I'm stuck in the past, thinking about him, our days together, how our relationship started, and how it ended. I feel enveloped by the past. I've lived here in the same apartment for more than fifty years. The man I moved here with, the man I spent more time with over my life than anyone else, would tell me in private moments, right here in the apartment, while lying in our bed, that my being too sensitive would be my demise. "You were the sensitive one," I say now, to the empty room. "You were the fearful one." I'm not left with anger or resentment or pity. It's an anticlimax--a mourning for my own naive belief. I look around my living room. There are piles of notebooks and sketch pads, drawings and photographs. The first piece of art I ever owned is buried in here somewhere. A gift from my father. It's a tiny framed print of the tree of life that's small enough to fit one hand. I never hung it because I didn't want anyone else to see it. There are two bookshelves full of paperbacks. I'm losing my attention span; it's hard to read novels now, or books of any kind. I used to read a book or two a week. Literary fiction, historical novels, comedies. I devoured books on science and nature. There is a box under the coffee table full of small, ceramic sculptures. I made them in my midtwenties. I have all these records, but I don't listen to music anymore. At one time, it wasn't just stuff. It all meant so much to me. All of it. Marrow that has turned to fat. Excerpted from We Spread by Iain Reid All rights reserved by the original copyright owners. Excerpts are provided for display purposes only and may not be reproduced, reprinted or distributed without the written permission of the publisher.
