The real Mrs. Tobias A novel

Sally Koslow

Book - 2022

"A warm and witty multigenerational story about the deeply complicated relationships between mothers- and daughters-in-law, told through three women who marry into the same family. It's 2018 in New York City, and three women all known as Mrs. Tobias--Veronika, the matriarch, her daughter-in-law Mel, and Mel's daughter-in-law Birdie--are trying to navigate personal difficulties, some of which are with one another. Veronika and Mel, despite having little in common, are both psychotherapists who are more skilled at helping other people than solving their own problems. Birdie, still dealing with the culture shock of moving to New York City and marrying into the Tobias clan, is pushed to her limit when her husband, Micah, gets int...o trouble. No amount of badgering from his steely grandmother, smart-mouthed mother, or disillusioned wife can convince Micah to own up to what he's done. Overwhelmed, Birdie bolts--taking along with their young daughter--to her Midwestern hometown, hoping that space, warmth and wisdom from her own feisty grandmother will help her find a path forward. And though Birdie begins to find comfort in a local bookstore and in the arms of her old boyfriend, back in New York her absence stirs up long simmering troubles and forces the Tobiases to reconsider their relationships to one another, and ultimately, what it means to be a family."--

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Genres
Domestic fiction
Published
New York : Harper, an imprint of HarperCollins Publishers [2022]
Language
English
Main Author
Sally Koslow (author)
Edition
First edition
Physical Description
326 pages ; 21 cm
ISBN
9780063272354
9780063223745
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Review by Booklist Review

Four generations of the Tobias family take center stage in the latest from Koslow (Another Side of Paradise, 2018). Social worker Melanie Glazer is used to running interference between her imposing mother-in-law, Veronika, and the rest of the family, which seems to be growing more dysfunctional every day. Mel's father-in-law is showing early signs of dementia; her daughter has decided to have a baby with her flighty girlfriend; and her son Micah's marriage is on the rocks, thanks to a drunk-driving accident. When Micah's wife flees to her Iowa hometown with their daughter, Mel worries that this could be the end of her close relationship with her preschool-age granddaughter. The point of view alternates with each chapter, but only Mel's chapters are written in first person, giving the reader a sense of camaraderie with Mel as she navigates her complicated family. Koslow shapes all of these moving parts into a compelling family drama, rich in insight and detail and honest in its depiction of women's roles as family caregivers. Fans of Ann Patchett and Cynthia D'Aprix Sweeney will feel right at home with the Tobias family.

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Review by Publisher's Weekly Review

In this engaging outing, Koslow (Another Side of Paradise) explores the complex dynamics roiling a Jewish family as it faces an ethical dilemma. The Tobias family has gathered for weekly Shabbat led by matriarch, Veronika, an intimidating psychiatrist; her daughter-in-law, Mel Glazer, a psychotherapist with a thriving business; Mel's freewheeling son, Micah, who operates a food truck serving mashed potatoes; and Micah's wife, Birdie Peterson, a Lutheran who left Iowa and a writing career to live with Micah in New York City. At the dinner, Micah relates his latest escapade: after a night drinking, he absentmindedly hit "something" on the road with his truck but failed to report the accident. Later, Mel's client Norah discloses that her assistant was gravely injured in a hit-and-run by a food truck. As Mel realizes it was Micah's doing, she probes Norah in later sessions for details on the investigation. Meanwhile, Birdie abandons Micah and takes their three-year-old daughter back to her family's farm, refusing to return until he turns himself in. Koslow puts a tidy bow on the ending, which more than strains credulity, but she brings depth to her portrayal of a meddling mother and mother-in-law while exploring how family ties can both constrict and protect. Readers who love layered family dramas should take a look. Agent: Sarah Fuentes, Fletcher & Co. (Sept.)

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