Home therapy Interior design for increasing happiness, boosting confidence, and creating calm

Therapist turned interior designer Yokota delivers a program for turning one's home into a "safe space" in this refreshing approach to design. As Yokota writes, "the problems we face typically begin in the home--and they can be resolved in the home." To help create a calm and organized living space, Yokota walks readers through four "domains." The "Individual Domain" comes first and starts with a "look inwards" to get past "limiting beliefs." The "Organizational Domain" requires making storage solutions throughout one's household to keep clutter at bay (Yokota suggests murphy beds and a "holding box" for odds and ends). The "Communal Domain," meanwhile, focuses on a home's functionality for the whole family, such as by setting up furniture in a circle to encourage conversations. And the "Renewal Domain" features tips on color psychology (warm colors are "energizing" and good for creativity) and inspiring decor ("seeing art in your home ignites your imagination"). Drawing on her roots as a therapist, Yokota also offers an "intake form" that asks readers about their homes, emotional well-being, and aesthetic preferences in order to land on a "Core Desire," or guiding design principle. Yokota's calming charm makes for an original approach to domestic bliss. (Dec.)

Yokota invites readers to consider the link between therapy and interior design. A licensed therapist turned interior designer, the author is uniquely qualified to expand upon her Home Therapy Method. She focuses on four "domains"--individual, organizational, communal, and renewal--that one must address in each room of a home to see marked improvements in one's living experience. The book includes an intake sheet that readers complete and assess. Those looking for a quick guide to decluttering or minimalism are not going to find that here. Each section takes a deep dive into a specific domain, giving concrete examples, questions for reflection, action steps, and plans, as well as full-color images of thoughtfully and beautifully designed spaces that reflect Yokota's theories and aesthetics. The pace is easy to follow, and the writing is as comforting as one would expect from a former therapist. VERDICT This is a perfect book for readers looking to combine self-help and self-care with interior design and organization.--Whitney Bates-Gomez

Welcome to Home Therapy Hello. Come in, sit down, and get comfy. Congratulations on taking the first step toward creating a beautiful home that prioritizes your mental wellness. Maybe this isn't the first time you've opened a book about therapy, or perhaps you have no idea what therapy really is, and that's okay. Therapy is for everyone. We all have challenges we face and could use someone to bounce ideas off of in order to navigate our way to the other side. And therapists are simply professionals who are there to help, by listening and offering solutions. Whether you are dealing with issues on your own or with a loved one, as a therapist-turned-interior-designer I have found the problems we face typically begin in the home--and they can be resolved in the home, too. Your Home, Your Safe Space You can't control what happens in the outside world, but at home you can find ways to feel renewed and fulfilled. While everyone's problems are wildly different, there are some fundamental similarities I often see. One of the most common issues stems from a failure to set boundaries. You might have trouble carving out time for your own creative enrichment in a busy household filled with children, or perhaps you have trouble going to bed on time and getting enough sleep. With proper boundaries in place, you can make more room for your personal enrichment and self-care. Something else I frequently help others learn to do is to "live in the gray." Most people don't realize that they don't have to default to a black-and-white, either/or way of thinking. I remind them that sometimes you're happy and sometimes you're sad, and that's perfectly okay. (In fact, you can be happy and sad at the same time--it's an emotion called bittersweet.) Whether things work out or not, you have to remember that life circumstances can and often do change. The good news is that your home is the perfect place to experience and contain all of your emotions. And when you set up your home appropriately, you can process what you're feeling in the comforting cocoon of, say, a cozy chair surrounded by plants and calming colors, while you learn to live more comfortably with uncertainty. You don't have to let those feelings derail you because you know you're safe where you are. That is the promise of the Home Therapy method. This leads me to a fundamental truth that is a big part of therapy: We are all born fragile and defenseless. But how we learn to deal with that vulnerability becomes the driving force of our lives. Most of us acknowledge that we come into the world vulnerable and leave it the same way; as a society, however, we somehow pretend that this shouldn't be true throughout the years we spend living our lives. Therapy acknowledges otherwise. Being vulnerable is important to establishing true connections with others, finding our authentic selves, and feeling secure at home (insert home security pun!)--and, therefore, finding true happiness. But it's not easy to do, which is why having an environment in which to practice it fully is so important. Home is the best place to form the ideas we carry with us into the world, so if we can learn to live in the world as we do at home, we can more confidently face our fears and show love to others. That's why I'm passionate not only about making your home a place where you are surrounded by elevated design, but also a place that elevates you as a human being. As someone who has seen many kinds of family tragedy, navigated just about every design dilemma, and struggled with my own emotional growth, I want to share my experience on both a personal and professional level, and that's what we'll do in this book. We'll find out what weighs heavy on your mind and in your heart, and we'll lighten the load, because that's Home Therapy. Excerpted from Home Therapy: Interior Design for Increasing Happiness, Boosting Confidence, and Creating Calm: an Interior Design Book by Anita Yokota All rights reserved by the original copyright owners. Excerpts are provided for display purposes only and may not be reproduced, reprinted or distributed without the written permission of the publisher.