Because I already loved you

Andrée-Anne Cyr, 1984-

Book - 2023

"I never got the chance to know you and play with you, but I think of you a lot. A child eagerly waits for their younger sibling to be born. They help Daddy decorate the room, pick out toys with Grandma and build a sled with Grandpa. Auntie and Uncle are excited too, and the narrator helps them to pick out an exciting book and prepare a magic trick to show the baby. When Mommy and Daddy come back from the hospital, there is no baby with them -- only a dark cloud of sadness. The child doesn't understand where the new baby is, until their parents explain that the baby died at birth. The narrator's family explains that it's rare, and it's no one's fault. Daddy and Mommy are very sad, but they also say that--little... by little--they will find their smiles again. Although the child never got the chance to get to know their sibling, they have saved them a special place in their heart. A quiet, thoughtful look at stillbirth and grief told through the eyes of a child. Includes a list of support organizations for children and families."--

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Genres
picture books
Fiction
Juvenile works
Picture books
Livres d'images
Published
Toronto ; Berkeley : Groundwood Books 2023.
Language
English
French
Main Author
Andrée-Anne Cyr, 1984- (author)
Other Authors
Bérengère Delaporte, 1979- (illustrator), Karen (Editorial director) Li (translator)
Item Description
Translation of: Je t'aimais déjà.
Translated by Karen Li.
Physical Description
1 volume (unpaged) : color illustrations ; 24 cm
Issued also in electronic format
ISBN
9781773069739
Contents unavailable.
Review by Kirkus Book Review

A family supports one another as they grieve the loss of a stillborn baby. A young only child eagerly awaits the arrival of a new baby. Each family member helps the little one mentally and emotionally prepare, from decorating the nursery with Daddy to picking out books with Auntie and toys with Grandma. But on the day Mommy and Daddy are supposed to bring the baby home, everything changes. The baby is stillborn, and everyone is devastated. The child is sad, too, "because I already loved you!" Little by little, the family grieves and begins the process of healing, but they never forget the baby. Translated from French and written from an unnamed youngster's perspective, the succinct text clearly and honestly conveys both emotions and information in a child-friendly way. Family members assure the narrator that while death is forever, stillbirth is rare, and "it's no one's fault, especially not mine." The childlike illustrations convey emotions with crayonlike lines and textures. White space directs the eye, encouraging readers to linger. There are few books on the topic of pregnancy loss and even fewer about grieving for a stillborn baby, making this tale an important entry point for deeper discussion. The work closes with a list of U.S. and Canadian organizations that offer support for those dealing with stillbirth. Characters are light-skinned. (This book was reviewed digitally.) Quiet and sincere. (Picture book. 2-6) Copyright (c) Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.

Copyright (c) Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.