Reasons not to worry How to be Stoic in chaotic times

Brigid Delaney

Book - 2023

"Like many people today, Brigid Delaney was searching for answers to timeless questions: How can we be good? Find inner peace? Properly grieve? Tame our insecurities, such as the fear of missing out? Determine what truly matters? Centuries ago, the Stoics pondered many of these same questions. And so, at an important inflection point in her own life, Brigid decided to let these ancient philosophers be her guide. Brigid is rash where the Stoics are logical; she runs on chaos, while the Stoics relinquish control of things beyond their reach. Over the course of a year, she dedicated herself to following the wisdom of Seneca, Epictetus, and Marcus Aurelius. She hoped to discover how best to live, how she could use the wisdom of these ancie...nt thinkers to navigate life in the modern world. Here, Brigid shares what she learned, showing us how we, too, can draw on the Stoics to regain a sense of agency and tranquility and find meaning in our lives. From learning to relinquish control to cultivating daily awareness of our mortality to building community, Brigid's insights are very funny and very wise." --

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Subjects
Genres
Self-help publications
Published
New York, NY : Harper, an imprint of HarperCollins Publishers [2023]
Language
English
Main Author
Brigid Delaney (author)
Edition
First U.S. edition
Item Description
"Originally published in Australia in 2022 by Allen & Unwin"--Title page verso.
Physical Description
viii, 293 pages ; 24 cm
Bibliography
Includes bibliographical references.
ISBN
9780063314825
  • Introduction
  • Who were the Stoics?
  • Part 1. The Essentials
  • How to … be mortal
  • How to … work out what matters
  • How to … cope with disaster
  • How to … be relaxed
  • How to … be good
  • How to … be untroubled
  • Part 2. Life and its Absurdities
  • How to … be calm
  • How to … be moderate
  • How to … be on social media
  • How to … be happy with what you've got
  • How to … beat FOMO and comparisons
  • How to … beat anxiety
  • Part 3. Crunch Time
  • How to … grieve
  • How to … die
  • Epilogue
  • Acknowledgements
  • Further reading
  • About the author
Review by Booklist Review

The early Greeks and Romans lived in times filled with plagues, death, inequality, floods, and political strife. Sounds a lot like the 2020s! To navigate our troubled times, Australian journalist Delaney turns to the work of the Stoics, ancient philosophers including Seneca, Marcus Aurelius, and Epictetus. The Stoics focused on the virtues of courage, self-control, wisdom, and justice, and acknowledged that we can only manage our own character and reactions to and treatment of others because everything else lies outside of our control. Pondering heavy topics including mortality, relaxation, disasters, anxiety, and moderation, as well as some more contemporary concerns like social media and FOMO, Delaney offers some uncomfortable but useful teachings. For example, she reminds us of the importance of acknowledging that everything in our lives, including health, relationships, and wealth, are being "loaned" to us and will eventually be recalled. Though (or perhaps because) she has some qualms with certain Stoic principles, Delaney is a great guide to their philosophy in that she recognizes the difficulty of putting it into practice. For example, she admits to her own struggles with moderation, and willingly ponders the application of stoic principles today. She shares personal experiences along with quotes from the ancients to assess our world and the sense of desperation that seems so pervasive.

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