I'll just be five more minutes (and other tales from my ADHD brain)

Emily Farris

Book - 2024

"Despite being a published writer with a family, a gaggle of internet fans, and (most shockingly) a mortgage, Emily Farris could never get her sh*t together. To her, being bad at staying organized was just one of her many character flaws--that is, until she was diagnosed with ADHD at the age of 35. Like many women and girls with undiagnosed ADHD, Emily spent her life internalizing criticisms about her lack of follow-through and carrying around a lot of shame as she tried to fit into a world designed for neurotypical brains. "I'll Just Be Five More Minutes" is a collection of honest, humorous, and sometimes heartbreaking personal essays about Emily's experiences as a woman with ADHD. Far more than simply classic ADHD... stories about being too energetic at school or being called too scatterbrained, "I'll Just be Five More Minutes" is a portrait of modern American life in a neurodivergent brain. It's about complicated relationships with family and friends (including celebrity stalker). Feminism and a woman's right to control her own body. Sleeping too little and drinking too much. Starting a side hustle--and then starting another one (and another and another). Finding the love of your life and then fighting to keep him. And, of course, self-acceptance. These are the deeply relatable, possibly secondhand embarrassment-inducing, wide-ranging stories about not quite fitting into the world without understanding why--a feeling we can all relate to whether we're neurodivergent or not. An essay collection both entertaining and enlightening, "I'll Just Be Five More Minutes" is for people who have ADHD, for the people who know and love them, and for anyone looking for a good laugh as well as a good cry. But it's also more than that--it's a book on how to exist as a woman, a mom, and a person in this fast-paced, overwhelming world we (somewhat begrudgingly) call home"--

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Subjects
Genres
Autobiographies
Published
New York : Hachette Books 2024.
Language
English
Main Author
Emily Farris (author)
Edition
First edition
Physical Description
xxviii, 267 pages ; 21 cm
Bibliography
Includes bibliographical references (pages 249-261).
ISBN
9780306830310
  • Author's Note
  • Introduction
  • How We Got Here: The Diagnosis That Saved My Marriage
  • Everything, All the Time
  • Undiagnosed
  • Seventeen Little Stories
  • A Case of the Mondays
  • Lipstick Is the Only Makeup You Can Put On in Public
  • Why I Never Responded to Your Text
  • Street Drugs
  • Did You Try This First?
  • A Breakup Story
  • Self-Assessment
  • What Not to Say to Someone with ADHD
  • No, I Will Not Shut Up About My Abortion
  • Ten Things I Hate About Fruit
  • Misdiagnosed
  • Bad Friend
  • Tramp Stamp
  • So Much Potential
  • A Tale of Two Summers
  • The ADHD Taxman Cometh
  • Re: New Thread **OPEN THIS ONE** (Ignore the Last One!!)
  • You Don't Want to Be in Love, You Want to Be in Love in a Movie
  • Things I've Forgotten and Things I Don't Think I'll Ever Forget
  • Me, Myself, and My Never-Ending Postpartum Anxiety
  • A Shed of One's Own
  • Color of the Year
  • Yes, I Have a Body
  • A Fairly Comprehensive List of Everyone I Think Is Mad at Me, with Notes
  • I'll Just Be Five More Minutes
  • The Scenic Route
  • Appendix
  • Notes
  • Acknowledgments
  • About the Author
Review by Publisher's Weekly Review

In these animated essays, Mother Mother podcaster Farris (Casserole Crazy) reflects on living with ADHD. "How We Got Here" recounts how Farris--struggling to juggle the responsibilities of motherhood and her job as a social media manager while keeping up with everyday chores--saw her troubles reflected in an article about women with ADHD, leading her to get diagnosed with the condition at age 35. The humorous entries offer insight into what it's like to have ADHD. For instance, "Re: New Thread" presents increasingly harried emails from Farris to a client as a two-hour copywriting gig turns into a two-day project that comes to include retooling the client's website, illustrating how people with ADHD "often underestimate how long it will take to get something done" and get distracted by unrelated tasks. Farris is frank about the challenges of the condition (she reports that fights with her husband often start because her poor impulse control leads her to make significant purchases the couple can't afford), but the essays are mostly lighthearted and comical, as when she details her sensory processing issues around rubbing fabric, writing that "the mere experience of watching someone rub their hand on their jeans will send me running into the other room." The result is a buoyant exploration of neurodivergence. Agent: Michael Bourret, Dystel, Goderich & Bourret. (Feb.)

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Review by Kirkus Book Review

Humorous essays about a woman trying to reconcile herself with her own mind. As she recounts in her first essay collection, which toggles between humor and poignancy à la Samantha Irby, Farris was in her mid-30s when she was diagnosed with ADHD, which "makes so much sense. I was a kid with a quick temper and a serious lack of impulse control. I interrupted sentences (my own included) with new ideas (brilliant ones, of course!), and I'd often get late-night bursts of inspiration that kept me up doing crafty projects way past my bedtime." As an adult, these issues persist. In between digging herself out from under mountains of dirty laundry and catching up on last year's tax forms, Farris offers trenchant thoughts on what it means to be neurodivergent and how she came to see her condition as a strength. "On our first anniversary, after a few too many Old Fashioneds," she writes, "I asked my husband if he regretted marrying me. 'I wouldn't exactly call it regret,' he said. He spent the next twenty minutes trying to explain his answer, but I didn't hear any of it." Farris describes a childhood among distracted adults, a hectic period as a young woman trying to finish college and earn a living in New York, awkward attempts to find love, and her current incarnation as a wife and mother. Decidedly nonlinear, the essays hop around both in time and subject matter. Though the author isn't always quite as funny as she thinks she is--her humor strains at times--and all the hopping about inevitably results in occasional repetition, these are mild complaints for a book that is engaging and appealing even when it falls short of captivating. A smart and charming collection from an endearingly spiky new voice. Copyright (c) Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.

Copyright (c) Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.