Dear Black girls How to be true to you

A'ja Wilson, 1996-

Book - 2024

"From Olympic gold medalist and two-time professional basketball MVP A'ja Wilson comes an inspirational collection on what it means to grow up as a Black girl in America. This is a book for all the girls with an apostrophe in their name. This is for all the girls who are "too loud" and "too emotional." This is for all the girls who are constantly asked, "Oh, what did you do with your hair? That's new." This is for my Black girls. In this empowering and deeply personal collection--adapted from and expanded upon the piece of the same name in The Players' Tribune--WNBA star A'ja Wilson shares stories from her life. Despite gold medals, championships, and a list of accolades, Wilson knows h...ow it feels to be swept under the rug. To not be heard, to not feel seen, to not be taken seriously. As a fourth grader going to a primarily white school in South Carolina, she was told she'd have to stay outside for a classmate's birthday party. "Huh?" she asked. Because the birthday girl's father didn't like Black people. Wilson tells stories like this: stories that held her down but didn't stop her. She shares her contribution to "The Talk," and how to keep fighting, all while igniting strength, resilience, and passion. Dear Black Girls is one remarkable author's necessary and meaningful exploration of what it means to be a Black woman in America today--and an of-the-moment rally cry to lift up women and girls everywhere"--

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Genres
Informational works
Instructional and educational works
Self-help publications
Published
New York : Moment of Lift Books, Flatiron Books 2024.
Language
English
Main Author
A'ja Wilson, 1996- (author)
Edition
First edition
Physical Description
175 pages ; 20 cm
ISBN
9781250290045
  • Introduction
  • It all started with a birthday party
  • The best gift a girl could ask for
  • Clichés don't stand a change against 13
  • Queen of mediocre
  • The Nonsense Detector
  • Grief doesn't care about your neat little boxes
  • Do not chomp that cheese
  • Always measure your dress sitting down
  • It's ok to be not ok
  • If you can see her, you can be her.
Review by Booklist Review

Wilson, the Las Vegas Aces' number one draft pick in 2018, has become a household name and continues to dominate the professional basketball world, winning multiple MVP awards and an Olympic gold medal while leading her team to championship victories. Here Wilson presents inspiring stories that explore what it means to grow up as a Black girl in America. More specifically, she also delves into "the hopes, fears, and dreams of an asthmatic, dyslexic, confused, goofy, introverted pastor's granddaughter from small-town South Carolina who was the ultimate late bloomer." Nevertheless, she persevered against microaggressions, dismissals, and outright racism and now offers tales of resilience and determination to inspire Black women and girls to keep fighting with confidence and even joy. As she shares her experiences and struggles, she becomes a beacon of hope for all who face adversity. Her book is a powerful and crucial call to support women and girls worldwide and a source of encouragement for everyone seeking to embrace their authentic self and overcome obstacles.HIGH-DEMAND BACKSTORY: WNBA star Wilson's first book will appeal to her fans and every reader looking for guidance from someone who overcame great odds to succeed.

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Review by Publisher's Weekly Review

Las Vegas Aces star Wilson, two-time winner of the WNBA's MVP award, debuts with a down-to-earth meditation on the complexities of Black girlhood. Avoiding prescriptive advice in favor of diaristic reflections, Wilson recalls such formative experiences as wrestling with dyslexia in a majority-white private school while dreaming of becoming an author; slowly rising to basketball success with the help of father, who coached her travel team and "told me what I needed to hear and not what I wanted to hear," even when that meant calling her play "trash" (she encourages readers to find their own "gardeners" willing to show them tough love so they can grow); and enduring crushing grief after her grandmother's death. Pushed by the latter experience to start therapy, Wilson calls for greater openness about mental health in the Black community. She strikes a voluble, friendly tone without pandering to her audience, and avoids sugarcoating the realities facing Black women while making clear that they need not resort to cynicism: "You have a body. You are Black. You are a woman. Whether you like it or not, that's the first thing people see... but you can accept this reality without letting it steal your joy." Readers will feel seen and heard. Agent: Byrd Leavell, UTA. (Feb.)

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Review by Library Journal Review

Wilson is a successful WNBA star who enjoys being her authentic self, loves her family, and credits their love and devotion to her as a pillar of her success. But anyone admiring her career now may never know the struggles, setbacks, and tribulations she has experienced. She understands the hype and pressure of being a professional athlete and difficulties of being a Black girl in the United States. She shares her story through a series of letters (chapters) addressed to Black girls. Each letter is an experience in her life. In her first letter she shares about how she did not attend her best friend's 13th birthday celebration because her friend's father did not like Black people. This was her first experience with racism, and it really hurt. She wants young Black girls to know that they can be their true selves and accomplish their dreams, even if they are not always sure what their dreams are. VERDICT In each letter Wilson shares what she faced and how she overcame it and lets Black girls know that they too can overcome adversity. Her love for Black girls is evident, and they will benefit greatly from reading this book.--Laura Ellis

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Review by Kirkus Book Review

A two-time WNBA MVP turns her life experiences into advice. Before she was a five-time WNBA All-Star, the No. 1 overall draft pick, an Olympic gold medalist, and a national champion with the University of South Carolina Gamecocks, Wilson felt like a misfit. At her predominantly white private school in Columbia, SC, she struggled against not only her classmates' racism, but also undiagnosed dyslexia--a learning disability at odds with her dream of becoming an author. Years later, the COVID-19 pandemic led to depression and anxiety. Throughout these experiences, Wilson witnessed how her racial and gender identities complicated and compounded her struggles. "Eventually," she writes, "the world steps in and reminds you: You have a body. You are Black. You are a woman. Whether you like it or not, that's the first thing people see." She continues later: "Your mission, Black girls, is to accept that reality. Don't hide from it….But you can accept this reality without letting it steal your joy," an exhortation that perfectly encapsulates Wilson's frank but indomitable spirit. Perhaps the most poignant example of this is Wilson's reaction to seeing a statue of herself erected outside the arena on the University of South Carolina campus: Her accomplishments were immortalized by the very institution that had prohibited her Black father from playing basketball for them--and which had prohibited her Black grandmother from even setting foot on the grounds. The author's refusal to "sugar coat" the oppression that Black people feel is matched only by her faith in readers' abilities to best the centuries-old obstacles America continues to shove in their way. Wilson fills this joyful, profound, and tender book with a slew of stories, most of which are artfully narrated and perfectly pitched. Most impressive is her narrative voice, which is humorous, conversational, lyrical, and unique. A Black basketball superstar delivers an eloquent and insightful work. Copyright (c) Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.

Copyright (c) Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.