The book of mothers How literature can help us reinvent modern motherhood

Carrie Mullins

Book - 2024

"This treasure trove for book lovers explores fifteen classic novels with memorable maternal figures, and examines how our cultural notions of motherhood have been shaped by literature. Sweet, supportive, dependable, selfless. Long before she had children of her own, journalist Carrie Mullins knew how mothers should behave. But how? Where did these expectations come from-and, more importantly, are they serving the mothers whose lives they shape? Carrie's suspicion, later crystallized while raising two small children, was that our culture's idealization of motherhood was not only painfully limiting but harmful, leaving women to cope with impossible standards--standards rarely created by mothers themselves. To discover how we m...ight talk about motherhood in a more realistic, nuanced, and inclusive way, Carrie turned to literature with memorable maternal figures for answers. Moving through the literary canon--from Pride and Prejudice and Little Women to The Great Gatsby, Beloved, Heartburn, and The Joy Luck Club-Carrie traces the origins of our modern mothering experience. By interrogating the influences of politics, economics, feminism, pop culture, and family life in each text, she identifies the factors that have shaped our prevailing views of motherhood, and puts these classics into conversation with the most urgent issues of the day. Who were these literary mothers, beyond their domestic responsibilities and familial demands? And what lessons do they have for us today-if we choose to listen?"--

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Published
New York : St. Martin's Press 2024.
Language
English
Main Author
Carrie Mullins (author)
Edition
First edition
Physical Description
293 pages ; 22 cm
Bibliography
Includes bibliographical references.
ISBN
9781250285065
  • Introduction
  • 1. The Real Housewife of Longbourn
  • Pride and Prejudice
  • 2. Material Girls
  • Madame Bovary
  • 3. Marmee Is Mad
  • Little Women
  • 4. Natural Mamas
  • Anne of Green Gables
  • 5. The Cool Girl Has Kids
  • The Great Gatsby
  • 6. How Do We Know Ourselves?
  • To the Lighthouse
  • 7. The Myth of Zero Risk
  • Passing
  • 8. Great Scott, Woman! Speak Out! We've Been Emancipated!
  • Mrs. Bridge
  • 9. Performing Motherhood
  • Play It as It Lays
  • 10. Who's Watching the Kids?
  • The Color Purple
  • 11. It's Funny Because It's True
  • Heartburn
  • 12. How Bad Is It, Really?
  • The Handmaid's Tale
  • 13. Motherlove Is a Killer
  • Beloved
  • 14. You Before Me
  • The Joy Luck Club
  • 15. You Will Become a Harried Mom
  • Harry Potter Series
  • Afterword
  • Acknowledgments
  • Notes
  • Sources
Review by Publisher's Weekly Review

This perceptive debut study from Mullins explores what the novels of Gustave Flaubert, Virginia Woolf, Alice Walker, and others reveal about social attitudes toward motherhood. Likening the stars of Bravo's Real Housewives franchise to Pride and Prejudice's Mrs. Bennet, Mullins argues that both are obsessed with ostentatious wealth and "believe a woman's currency is her looks." Mullins contends that while Jane Austen uses Mrs. Bennet as a foil to her daughter Elizabeth's more progressive "version of womanhood," characterized by valuing one's "intellect and happiness," the Real Housewives shows leave their stars' superficiality unexamined. Nella Larsen portrays motherhood as an unending bout of anxiety in her 1929 novel, Passing, Mullins writes, faulting Larsen for insinuating that marriage, while necessary for a woman to achieve financial security, makes wives sexually undesirable by turning them into, in the case of protagonist Irene, "overbearing, unattractive worrier." Elsewhere, Mullins opines on how the unrelenting busyness of Mrs. Weasley in J.K. Rowling's Harry Potter series conflates constant activity with good mothering, and how Offred's objectification by a repressive society in Margaret Atwood's The Handmaid's Tale dramatizes how antiabortion policies reduce women to their reproductive capacity. Mullins draws unexpected connections and manages the difficult task of finding fresh perspectives on much studied works of literature. The result is a discerning feminist examination of the Western canon. Agent: Laura Mazer, Wendy Sherman Assoc. (May)Correction: An earlier version of this review conflated the author with a novelist of the same name.

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