The unboxing of a Black girl

Angela Shanté

Book - 2024

"Set in New York City in the '90s, Angela Shanté's poems and stories paint a mosaic of childhood that is shaped by the past and reverberates into the present. As Shanté navigates the city through memory, this timeless book illuminates the places where Black girls are nurtured or boxed in, through stories and poems about expectations, exploitation, love, loss, and self-realization. Her poems center on pivotal moments of Black childhood, using footnotes that encourage you to listen to songs, watch movies, and even learn how to play Spades to further contextualize and celebrate Black culture in every aspect of life. But even with Black joy, life ain't no crystal stair. Between fond memories, Shanté also explores the dark... corners of childhood by showing us the ways adultification, misogynoir, and sexual assault can impact girlhood. Every piece in this memoir invites you to unpack the past--to find and transcend the expectations and boxes the world puts Black girls in"--

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Subjects
Genres
Autobiographical poetry
Essays
Poetry
Historical poetry
Poésie autobiographique
Poésie historique
Published
Salem, MA : Page Street Publishing Company 2024.
Language
English
Main Author
Angela Shanté (author)
Item Description
Includes readers guide.
Physical Description
148 pages ; 22 cm
Bibliography
Contains bibliographical references.
ISBN
9798890039538
  • I. The Boxes We See
  • Black girls learn duality early too early
  • Conflicts inside, conflicts outside
  • Some boxes are chosen for us
  • Being aware of boxes and escaping them are two different things
  • II. The Ones We Don't
  • When do Black girls lose their childhood?
  • Where is her safe space?
  • Where can she be free?
  • Where does she get to just be?
  • Boxes inside, boxes outside
  • Hypocrisy inside, hypocrisy outside
  • Everybody wanna be Black until it's time to be Black
  • III. And The Ones We Shed
  • Be gentle on yourself
  • Be gentle with yourself
  • What if we could just be free?
  • What, if we could just be?
  • Readers Guide
  • References And Research
  • Inspiration
  • Resources
  • Acknowledgments
  • About The Author
Review by Booklist Review

Shanté's poetic memoir highlights lessons from the author's lived experiences through a variety of text formats and sociocultural talking points. Shanté dissects the intersectionality of growing up as a Black girl in New York City, explaining the influence of the women in her life, the gender roles assigned to her at birth, and the things she learned from her own corner of the Bronx. Poems often include footnotes referencing and recommending music, movies, and books by Black artists, as well as hints to the meanings behind the stanzas, explicitly stating the racist ideologies that exist throughout our culture. The author's story is split into the boxes that Black women do and don't fit into, proving perseverance in a binary world and providing readers with the tools they need to understand the limitations of the boxes, why they exist, and how they affect the lives of Black girls. As she follows her own time line, Shanté's influences, passions, frustrations, and landscape come together as lyrical poems with chaotic subjects and essential messages.

From Booklist, Copyright (c) American Library Association. Used with permission.
Review by Kirkus Book Review

An African American poet explores the special joys and challenges of Black girlhood. Educator and writer Shanté draws on her life story to explore what it means to be a Black girl in contemporary society. From the beginning, she pays homage to wide-ranging experiences, some positive, some not, of women of all ages, while acknowledging her connections to them through her writing. She uses a variety of poetic forms, including free verse and haiku, to describe ways that Black girls are characterized from an early age. Others negatively judged Shanté's mother's status as a single parent, even as her mom sought supportive connections: "she wanted us to know / that we had community / a culture / a home / a safe space / to land. / In a hard / hard / world." Her mother's guidance was critical to Shanté's ability to overcome limitations imposed both from within and outside the community. By weaving her personal experiences with reflections and observations, the author provides a rich tapestry of perspectives on Black girlhood. In addition to culturally specific episodes, the poems explore universal themes around family dynamics, coming of age, and personal acceptance. The author effectively uses the imagery of being boxed in (and stepping outside boxes) to link the poems and vignettes. Footnotes cleverly expand on the ideas contained in the main text. A comprehensive readers' guide completes this unique literary package. A highly creative way of providing insightful social commentary. (Poetry. 14-17) Copyright (c) Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.

Copyright (c) Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.