How to be sick A Buddhist-inspired guide for the chronically ill and their caregivers
Book - 2018
In 2001, Toni Bernhard got sick and, to her and her partner's bewilderment, stayed that way. As they faced the confusion, frustration, and despair of a life with sudden limitations--a life that was vastly different from the one they'd thought they'd have together--Toni had to learn how to be sick. In spite of her many physical and energetic restrictions (and sometimes, because of them), Toni learned how to live a life of equanimity, compassion, and joy. This book reminds us that our own inner freedom is limitless, regardless of our external circumstances. Updated with new insights and practices hard-won from Toni's own ongoing life experience, this is a must-read for anyone who is, or who might one day be, sick or in pai...n. --Publisher.
- Subjects
- Genres
- Self-help publications
- Published
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Somerville, MA :
Wisdom Publications
[2018]
- Language
- English
- Main Author
- Other Authors
- Edition
- Revised and updated edition
- Physical Description
- xxvii, 219 pages ; 23 cm
- Bibliography
- Includes bibliographical references (pages 205-206) and index.
- ISBN
- 9781614294788
- Foreword
- Preface to the Revised Edition
- Preface to the First Edition
- How Everything Changed
- 1. Getting Sick: A Romantic Trip to Paris
- 2. Staying Sick: This Can't Be Happening to Me
- Pain Is Part of Life
- 3. The Buddha Tells It Like It Is
- 4. The Universal Law of Impermanence
- 5. Who Is Sick? Who Is in Pain?
- Finding Peace and Joy
- 6. Finding Joy in the Life You Can No Longer Lead
- 7. Soothing the Body, Mind, and Heart
- 8. Using Compassion to Alleviate Your Suffering
- 9. Facing the Ups and Downs of Chronic Illness with Equanimity
- Turnarounds and Transformations
- 10. Getting Off the Wheel of Suffering
- 11. Tonglen: Spinning Straw into Gold
- 12. With Our Thoughts We Make the World: An Appreciation of Byron Katie
- 13. The Present Moment as a Refuge
- 14. Wise Action: What to Do and What Not to Do
- 15. Zen Helps
- Balancing Community and Isolation
- 16. Communicating with Care
- 17. Connecting with Others and Appreciating Solitude
- 18. And in the End...
- A Guide to Using the Practices to Help with Specific Challenges
- With Gratitude
- Recommended Reading
- Index
- About the Author