I decided to live as me An illustrated checklist for how to stop comparing yourself to others so you can learn to love yourself
Book - 2024
"In a world where it can seem impossible to feel that you are ever good enough, and where it's easy to judge yourself by the unrealistic standards of social media, I Decided to Live as Me offers guidance and encouragement for celebrating yourself and feeling comfortable in your own skin. With her charming illustrations and words of comfort, Kim Suhyun has reached millions of readers-including Jung Kook from the K-pop band BTS-who have found inspiration in her journey of self-love"--
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- Subjects
- Genres
- Self-help publications
- Published
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New York :
Penguin Life
[2024]
- Language
- English
Korean - Main Author
- Other Authors
- Physical Description
- xiii, 253 pages : illustrations ; 20 cm
- ISBN
- 9780143138228
- Preface
- Introduction
- Part 1. Checklist for a Life that Respects Who You are
- Do Not Be Poiite to Those Who Are Not Polite to You
- Don't Go Out of Your Way to Be Miserable
- Don't Get Hurt by Those Who Are Just Passing Through Your Life
- Get Rid of Numbers in Your Life
- Don't Be Affected by What Others Say
- Don't Live a Life of Insults
- Do Not Make Excuses for Yourself
- Remember That No One's Life Is Perfect
- Be Perfectly Content with Being Ordinary
- Don't Allow Anyone to Judge You
- Don't Be Modest to the Point of Low Self-Esteem
- Speak Out for the Right to Respect Yourself
- Part 2. Checklist for Living as Yourself
- Have a Strong Sense of Your Self-Worth
- Seek Out Your Own Life
- Don't Delay Reflecting on What Makes You Happy
- Question What Seems Obvious
- Do Not Live to Please Others
- Don't Be Anyone but Yourself
- Do Not Simply Accept the Common View
- Nurture Your Taste
- Have Your Own Taste
- Confront the Real You
- Discover Where You Can Shine the Brightest
- No Matter How Good It Sounds, See for Yourself
- Part 3. Checklist for Not Being Defeated by Anxiety
- Endure the Uncertainty That Is Life
- Don't Assume You're Alone in Your Problems
- Don't Follow Some BS Script for Life
- Find a Real Solution
- Try Not to Be Oversensitive
- Be Just the Necessary Amount of Sad
- When Things Are Hard, Say They're Hard
- Take Time to Process Things
- Don't Do Something Just Because You're Anxious
- Learn to Go On with Your Day Even When There's 3 Problem
- Part 4. Checklist for Living with One Another
- Have at Least a Basic Level of Respect for One Another
- Don't Try So Hard to Be Understood by Everyone
- Respect One Another's Boundaries
- Become a Generous Individualist
- Stop Making Life About Winning or Losing
- Don't Be a Nice Person Just to Avoid Being Disliked
- Do Not Be Ashamed of Things You Have No Reason to Be Ashamed Of
- You Don't Need to Get Along with Everyone
- Learn to Distinguish Between Something Being Worn and Being Ruined
- Do Your Best for Your Current Relationships
- Go Full Steam Ahead When There's a Green Light
- Express Your Feelings
- Find Someone to Be With
- Part 5. Checklist for a Better World
- Don't Put Yourself Down
- When You Need to, Bear It
- Real Change Takes Time
- Sometimes, Shift to Neutral
- Create Evidence for Hope
- Be Generous
- Do Not Participate in the Hunger Games
- Don't Become a Faint Person
- Ask Yourself What It Means to Be Human
- Become a Lost Soul
- Part 6. Checklist for a Good and Meaningful Life
- Don't Make Happiness Your Life's Purpose
- Live Lightly
- Add Variety to Your Life
- Try Not to Become a Dried Husk
- The Only Thing Within Your Control Is Your Own Happiness
- Think About What You Have Gained
- Say Goodbye to the Past
- Leave a Margin of Error
- Accept Yourself
- Take an Interest in Your Own Happiness
- Love What Is Imperfect
- Ask Yourself How You Want to Live
- Live as an Adult
- Afterword
- Acknowledgments