Review by Booklist Review
Ginder is the author of five previous novels, including The People We Hate at the Wedding (2017), which was made into a movie in 2022. His latest follows a group of friends over the course of 20 years as they gather at important junctures in their lives, from stumbling into young adulthood to settling down (or not) with partners to tackling the trials of middle age. Flashbacks introduce the six college friends and unspool their defining characteristics. Beginning with a New Year's Eve party, each successive chapter offers a shifting perspective for a deeper, more dimensional interpretation of the recalled events. Even when life changes, arguments and resentments temporarily create distance between them, the group remains bonded by loyalty and a deep understanding of each other. The ensemble cast is carefully constructed, and each member is memorable, unique, and well defined. Ginder creates some genuinely hilarious, believable scenes tempered with touches of pathos. Fans of films like The Four Seasons, The Big Chill, and St. Elmo's Fire will appreciate the witty banter, poignant moments, and dynamic interplay that Ginder skillfully orchestrates.
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Review by Publisher's Weekly Review
Ginder (Let's Not Do That Again) follows five college friends as they approach middle age in his funny and poignant latest. In 2007, two years after graduating from the University of Pennsylvania, Richie's friends join him at his crowded New Year's Eve party in Lower Manhattan. From there, the story unfolds in a series of occasions over the next decade, including a Cancún wedding in 2014 for friends of Mia's, Adam's Labor Day party in the Hamptons in 2018, and Sasha and Theo's 2022 Halloween party in New Jersey. Along the way, the reader learns about Adam's longtime crush on Richie, Marco's on-and-off relationship with Mia before settling down with another woman and starting a family, Richie's increasingly destructive dependence on booze and cocaine, Sasha's difficult pregnancy and labor, and much more. The novel runs on its deliciously witty dialogue, as when Mia tells Richie's new roommate in 2007 that living with him "is liable to get you on the FBI's Most Wanted list," but Ginder counterpoints the humor with unsparing wisdom, as when he writes of the epiphany that Mia has in Cancun: "Things would change little by little, until they didn't recognize each other at all." Throughout, Ginder effectively portrays the recurring joy of lasting friendships along with the pain of growing apart. It's a triumph. Agent: Richard Pine, Inkwell Management. (Feb.)
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Review by Library Journal Review
Ginder (Let's Not Do That Again) serves up a sharp exploration of relationships and the curious blend of love and resentment they bear. This is the story of a group of college friends whose lives and relationships play out through five parties thrown over a span of 20 years. Readers meet the three main characters, Sasha, Mia, and Adam, at the first party, hosted on New Year's Eve in New York City, two years after their college graduation. As they launch into adulthood, the friends believe that they'll always have each other. But life, the choices the friends make as they age, and their nostalgia for old times are not always compatible. With each party, Ginder hands the narrative to different characters, offering readers access to their deepest thoughts--the insights they don't share with their friends--which allows for nuanced, layered character development. The result is an interesting (but not necessarily uplifting) meditation on friendship, time, and the ways people try to hold on to each other even as they drift apart. VERDICT Ginder does not disappoint with this exploration of relatably flawed characters in a novel that is a terrific choice for book clubs.--Margie Ticknor
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