Turn to stone A memoir

Emily Meg Weinstein

Book - 2025

"Down on the ground, it was hard to connect, hard to attach, hard to untangle, hard to let go. But up here, I understood. Up here, I could make it good." Broken by an abusive relationship, Emily Meg Weinstein impulsively tries rock climbing on a California road trip, following strangers into the vertical world. Soon, she is consumed by her addiction to the freedom she feels when she's up on the wall. Holding on to the rocks, she is free from societal constraints and expectations, free from her own sorrows and longings. Raw and dark, but also funny, Weinstein describes the steep learning curve of becoming a climber, spending weeks at a time sleeping in the back of her Subaru, and a long, dark night stuck on top of a mountain. ...As she ascends, Weinstein faces her demons, finding power and grace in risk and adventure. A memoir of sex, angst, and rocks, Turn to Stone chronicles one woman's ascent--on walls of stone and within herself--as she faces her demons and finds freedom and power in the raw and wild adventure of rock climbing."

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Subjects
Genres
Autobiographies
Published
New York, NY : Simon Element, an imprint of Simon & Schuster, LLC 2025.
Language
English
Main Author
Emily Meg Weinstein (author)
Edition
First Simon Element hardcover edition
Physical Description
xvi, 266 pages : illustrations ; 24 cm
ISBN
9781668047859
  • Prologue
  • Part I. Run for Your Life
  • 1. Run for Your Life
  • 2. Yosemite
  • 3. Joshua Tree
  • Part II. Rites
  • 4. Crack
  • 5. Bomber
  • 6. Valley
  • 7. Stonemasters
  • 8. Rope
  • 9. Rack
  • 10. Whip
  • 11. Epic
  • Part III. Heroes for a Day
  • 12. Mileage
  • 13. The Tower
  • 14. The Warrior Will Do What She Must
  • Epilogue
  • Acknowledgments
Review by Kirkus Book Review

A woman heals from heartbreak via her newfound obsession with the sport of rock climbing. Weinstein is no stranger to risk and adventure, having traveled widely and rather daringly, frequently with her best friend, Leila, at her side. But following a particularly brutal breakup with a manipulative and violent boyfriend, she flees Brooklyn and its punk rock scene for refuge in the outdoors culture of the West Coast. She finds her way to climbing at the invitation of "dirtbag" campground buddies and quickly finds herself on the fringes of legendary climbers, drawn to the focus and persistence that the sport demands and the potential perilousness of its brushes with failure. She takes to the sport with urgency and desperation to escape the "sorrow and shame" chasing her. The vulnerability that Weinstein shows in early chapters that recount her breakup gives way to a collection of rocks and routes, climbing and romantic partners. At the heart of her story is a self-transformation facilitated by her confrontations with danger and death's possibility while ascending the rock. She discusses a range of influences, desires, and expectations that she has tried for decades to reconcile: the caution and fear of her parents, her longing for a partner and family, and the comparative conventional success of her peers. Additional commentary on sociopolitical issues and occasional judgments about her new hobby's participants pepper the text. The depth of her metamorphosis occasionally becomes muddied by the technical jargon and frequent marijuana use of her new sport, with moments of insight and understanding periodically poking out between vertical conquests and descriptions of otherworldly surroundings. While the less vertically inclined reader may leave thirsty for a more thorough and deliberate reflection, Weinstein nevertheless makes a case for stepping radically outside of one's physical and philosophical comfort zones to find strength and purpose. A spirited, if at times scattered, story of self-preservation and discovery. Copyright (c) Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.

Copyright (c) Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.