End emotional outsourcing How to overcome your codependent, perfectionist, people-pleasing habits and reclaim your life

Beatriz Victoria Albina

Book - 2025

"Do you say "yes" when you mean "no"? Do you end up in lopsided relationships, feeling resentful but not sure how to speak up? Do you feel disconnected from your emotions and your body - like you're living from the neck up? Do you feel anxious, struggle with perfectionism and imposter syndrome, or feel like you've lost touch with your true self? You're not alone: Thousands of people, especially those of us socialized as women, struggle with Emotional Outsourcing - a term Nurse Practitioner and life coach Beatriz Victoria Albina coined to describe the codependent, people-pleasing, perfectionist habits that keep us stuck. In End Emotional Outsourcing, Albina explores the origins - both personal and syst...emic - of these codependent tendencies, and coaches readers through a nervous system focused, science-backed program of thought work and somatic practices. Readers will learn to: regulate their nervous systems, reframe their habitual thoughts and actions, take back their time and energy, improve relationships with parents, friends, and partners, discover their inherent self-worth and lovability. Groundbreaking, healing, and urgent, End Emotional Outsourcing is poised to change the conversation about codependency, and help an entire generation of women step into their power" --

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Published
New York, NY : Balance 2025.
Language
English
Main Author
Beatriz Victoria Albina (author)
Physical Description
324 pages ; 24 cm
ISBN
9781538766439
9781538766453
  • Introduction: Are You Ready to Stop Putting Yourself Last?
  • Part 1. Foundations of Emotional Outsourcing
  • Chapter 1. What Is Emotional Outsourcing?
  • Chapter 2. The Origin of Your Self-Story
  • Chapter 3. The Trap of Functional Freeze
  • Chapter 4. Shame and the Self-Abandonment Cycle
  • Part 2. Becoming Interdependent
  • Chapter 5. Be the Cake
  • Chapter 6. Somatics 101
  • Chapter 7. The Thought Work Protocol
  • Chapter 8. Boundaries, Limits, and Direct Communication
  • Conclusion: Your Favorite Life
  • Appendix A. Nervous System Arousal Levels and Tracker
  • Appendix B. Thought Work Protocol Worksheet
  • Acknowledgments
  • Notes
  • Index